a) Chat with each girl separately about 3somes – has she had one before, does she want one, what sort of girls does she find attractive

b) Text each of them “Hey, I think I know another girl we should meet…. could be a lot of fun!”

(optional) – show them photos of each other so you’ve got the basic attraction agreed

c) Text each of them “Let’s all meet up at Pub X at time Y, have a few drinks & see what happens”. Pub X = your local

d) Have a word with the more confident one about how it’s likely to play out – and make it clear in your own mind that if it doesn’t work, she’s the one you’re taking home

e) Meet for a couple of drinks. Keep it lighthearted, a bit flirty. Make eye contact with the more confident one to see if she nods “I’m up for it” or similar.

f) “Hey, I’ve got a bottle of wine in the fridge at home, let’s go there”. If they both get up & put coats on, you’re almost there

g) Kiss less confident one while walking to your house, in view of the more confident one.

h) Get home, pour drinks.

i) Escalate

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