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* FOLLOW MY STRATEGY AND YOUR NIGHT WILL NEVER AGAIN TURN INTO ANY OF THESE THREE THINGS… SLOW, ARDUOUS OR GRUELLING!

* Understand that you are a creature of HABIT. What you did before you will do again. Break your old “VIEWING, REACTIVE, SPECTATOR – MODE PATTERN”. Just get out there and fucking make shit happen! Create a new pattern!

I have better and better nights because I follow THIS pattern…

Entering the Venue:

* Start out with a warm up set. This is huge. Build momentum. But don’t worry about it… just BE. If you’re constantly questioning yourself as to whether you are in the zone or not, the ‘zone’ will constantly elude you. Let state come from within. You will give “less of a fuck” as the night goes on and the momentum will take care of itself. Don’t give a fuck about giving less of a fuck! Speak to your first group within 3 seconds of walking into the venue… NO HESITATION… AND IT DOESN’T EVEN MATTER WHO YOU TALK TO! What’s more, any lame ass line will do… that doesn’t matter either. You just need to start breaking those old spectator mode habits such as walking around the venue to “see if there are hot girls there”. You can start the first few interactions by simply asking ” hey what time does this place shut” or “what time does it get busy” or “Hey what’s the occasion.” COMPLETELY LAME right? Maybe, but you just need that momentum… remember!And no running straight to the bar to buy a drink before you “check out the venue”. What do you want to be a spectator or a creator? The longer you leave it, the longer you’re the spectator, the more you start listening to that little bastard voice in the head. When I’m in a busy club I walk round saying random shit to everyone. That’s EVERYONE. I don’t care. Complete self amusement… I’m having a LOT of fun.

* Fuck that voice!! The smaller the time in between different groups of people, the less in your head you will be!

* Momentum truly is a wonderful thing!

* A little side note regarding alcohol… If a women senses you are confident because you are slightly tipsy then if makes it a lot harder for her to build attraction for you. Don’t hide behind ALCOHOL… don’t be one of THOSE guys who tell their friends “I’M OKAY ONCE I’VE HAD A DRINK.” Replace alcohol with momentum.It won’t take long before you start taking bigger risks. The more you practice, the more you start to say things that are completely congruent with who you are instead of those bullshit LAME ASS openers that you don’t give a shit about the answers to. You start going more direct. You start getting more physical… more SEXUAL. As a side note: If you’re in one venue for the night you have a choice… Build the momentum gradually or designate an “obliteration venue” wherein you give yourself a time limit. Around ten minutes maybe. Bust in and speak to EVERYONE within that time. Be completely outcome free. You can start off lame, but you want to get more and more direct.

* What I mean when I say direct is be more “Authentic” and “Congruent”.

* I work in a bar on most Friday nights where I constantly get to flirt with hot women. One night I finished early but the momentum stayed with me and as I was walking home I made a very direct approach on a VERY tall and beautiful blonde lady I observed through the window as I walked past a late night bar. Direct walk up… Hold eye contact. I took her away from all the guys she was with and bought her a drink. Yeah that’s right guys… I bought her a drink! And then I took her home and did naughty things to her!! Not one of her friends stopped her. Pure confidence!! And I tell you now, if that was the first girl I’d spoken to that night there would have been no way I would of gone in hard as I did. The momentum had gathered me up to a peak!

* Entering the Venue Part II:
* So now we have the foundations – the way you should be approaching a night out and the importance of momentum – I want to talk about the interactions themselves…
* As you build up your flow you will start to have more interactions, more conversations. You will start taking bigger “risks”.
* I don’t really care what she says for the first couple of minutes as she has her “club shield up”. It can be brought down with either high energy of low energy absurdity.
* The randomness of the night makes the fun factor kick in, but I’m still going to shoot to kill. I normally buzz around the club either in high energy mode or low energy mode. Both, however, have the overall goal of going out TO GET LAID… either that night or at a later date.
* I don’t stay in one mode or the other, but I’m definitely in low energy mode for the larger percentage of the night. I used to be a complete nut case and just run around being a clown and I still enjoy adding in some of this stuff. But it’s all about balance. I find balance at a ratio of 80/20 (low to high).

High Energy Mode:

High fives!

Say Cheers (while touching glasses).

Scream WHOOOO! (and scream it with your hands up in the air while standing in the middle of a large group).

You can even walk up singing the song that’s playing or even just mime it! Just hold eye contact no matter what is playing.

Use ‘QUIRKY’ openers. Get your wing to choose them for you. Some of my recent ones include:

“Hi… I’m Brad Pit”

“Who lies more? Turtles or dolphins…

And the classic ‘Thundercats’ opener.. SNNNAAAAAARRRRFFFF!!! Hoooooooo!!

Think of your own though, don’t just use these. It really doesn’t matter what it is. The Funnier YOU find it the better. YOU are outcome free, remember…

So dance like you’re mental. Pump your fists in air, make your face expressive. Go down on one knee. Anything… in a pure “I don’t give a shit style’. Dance like a chicken even. PURE SELF AMUSEMENT ! “Being the party” is very important. But be it for you, without looking for a specific reaction. Draw state from within. Don’t let your state be dictated by external forces.

Soon you’ll be amusing yourself while going for instant make outs on the dancefloor – then it’s kiss closing in bathrooms… and even LOVE MAKING IN THE LAV!!

Low Energy Mode:

This is my foundation or default state when I’m in club! I go into low energy mode when I feel I’ve reached the HOOK POINT. Once there I can go into LOW ENERGY mode and leave the girl to invest the greater energy into the interaction. It’s simple… resting purely on the subtleties of that inner smile.

I’m engaging in the purest form with the person I’m talking to.

I’m doing everything other than trying.

I’m pure congruency. I’m not trying and not even trying not to try.

I’m simply PRESENT, yet my momentum is propelling me forwards.

I’m taking up a lot of space.

My body movements are smooth.

* I’m not needy. I’m not checking out the women or anything else for that matter… if a glass smashes… no big deal. A fight breaks out…no big deal. I probably wouldn’t even notice! It’s pure presence in motion and there’s no looking to the environment for cues… I’m demonstrating complete internal validation.

Comparing The Two:

* I find that it’s balls on the line in high energy state… that’s where I’m making shit happen. BUT, low energy state is where I’m getting the opportunities to speak to the women I really like the look of. I build a lot of value up from high energy state… because I’m the party. I stand out immeasurably from all the losers who are just stood there observing and CHECKING OUT the hot girls … trying to build up enough courage to go and actually speak to one of them. And then I’m just chill and the fluctuation between these two modes is dynamite. I find that after only 15 minutes in a venue a lot of women are already making it really easy for us to open them. They’re leaning against walls and making subtle eye contact. Or they’re brushing past and standing right next to us. Sometimes they’re so close that my body can’t help but be touching theirs.
* It’s purely from the vibe we give off… and this is where I start picking off the hotties!
* I realise that the dynamics of interactions, at the start, can be hard to crack so I’ve come up with some classic stuff that gets the conversation easily flowing. If you did everything above properly then you won’t need to “worry” about silence or what to say next. What’s your opener? Like I said before… IT’S NO BIG DEAL!
* Say “Hey what’cha looking at girl! (do it with a cheeky smile that grins from inside out)
* Say “You guys look like you are from (insert random country here! But make it something random and fun like North or South Kenya, Korea or even Wales!)
* Say “I bet you guys live together…”
* Ask them who the boss is?
* Tell her you bet she’s a little trouble maker!
* Or maybe just ask her to introduce you to her friend (but say it with that same cheeky smile)

All of the above can be used both as openers and follow through statements.

* Mindset:
* The beginning is the real test to all interactions. Stay in there, stay calm. Remember, If you get lots and lots of resistance go through the above sections and see where you may have made your mistakes. Just don’t expect no resistance at all… it’s a bi-product of the situation. Women have shield they use to defend themselves against random guys who approach them in bars (I’ll tell you how to disarm them later). But when I’m interacting with her, I’m thinking she’s just my bratty little girl… my source of entertainment.
* I’m metaphorically asking her “Are you going to let your social conditioning stop you from having a great time with a guy like me?
* I’m telling her “Don’t mess up young lady…”
* I’m NOT thinking “Is this working?”
* I’m NOT thinking “Does she think I’m weird?”
* I’m NOT thinking “Does she like me?” or “what technique or line shall I say now that will make her like me?”
* I see the interaction as pure self amusement. I don’t take it serious. She tells me to fuck off… it’s literally funny to me and as a result she tells me I’m attractive. But either reaction is the same. Outside sources do not affect my self worth or my self esteem. I choose my state not her. YES… EVEN IF SHE TELLS ME IM HOT… I really don’t care what she thinks.
* I have no reason to be there other than my own selfish desires.
* I can just walk off whenever I want.
* I can say whatever I want.
* And I never react to what they say until I have equal investment in the interaction.
* I’m like the white pool ball. Constantly throwing shit at them. Breaking them down and ploughing through until I get those AFC questions….What’s your name?”, “Where you from?
* Yeah, I give it back. I reward the effort… I don’t then go “ha got you!” to myself and pretend to be smooth. I just stay congruent and unaffected by the situation!
* I definitely don’t try to act cool and make them work harder at first… because they won’t! Like the guy I ask “where are you from” who replies “Guess”…It’s too cocky too early and I’m just left thinking “TWAT!” Unless it’s done with charm and cheeky chappie smile its not a good idea to have her work too hard…… at first.
* Then I just vibe…. I talk about random shit….. I am completely myself. I speak honestly and when she asks me what brought me out tonight I tell her honestly too “I’M OUT TO MEET COOL GIRLS”

I DON’T TRY TO PROVE TO HOT WOMEN THAT I HAVE VALUE… I JUST ASSUME IT!

* And as the interaction goes on suddenly you find yourself in a conversation where the initial social awkwardness has been removed and now you’re both vibing…

The difference is that she is reacting to me… and not the other way around.

Feel free to message me with any questions

Hey Bro,

Here is a bit of background of how I got into game.

Part 1 Age 9 to 17 years

These a point to this whole story (somewhere lol)….

Most people ask me on seminars/bootcamps and 1on1’s were you always this good with women, here’s your answer.

Really I don’t consider myself ginger not anymore, that person isn’t dead but merged with a higher being an evolved Rob/Beckster. Some might say altar ego. Cool

It was fine at primary school St John’s I even had a girl friend and a few snogs and the girl next door (well 2 doors away) was my girl friend to, she even came to me with her friend and said can we both go out with you, I was 9 or 10 at the time. She even lock me in her room smoke cigs and said if I didn’t kiss her she would say it was me.

I was definitely a natural them days, I even was thinking of routines to pull girls then.
So no issues with my hair colour then.

Secondary came Sheen school, yes you guessed it so did the names and bullying a lot of my friends went to other schools, I always stuck up for myself or ignored people that hassled me but it did dent my confidence by probably 90% which is a hell of a lot I was now an total AFC.
I had one girl friend through this time and not for long and it was at 13.
I fancied a girl at school who I hardly ever spoke to (now I know her very well but that’s for later maybe).

I went to Richmond college with a new attitude in life and I didn’t know anyone in my class and not many in my college.

I changed my hair style to curtains it was either that or a skin head (wish I’d gone for the skin head now).

One girl knew me called Candy ran over to me and we chatted that never happened in secondary school. We made friends other the holidays and she was friends with my buddy Spanners. She noticed my new hair it gave me a boast of confidence.

In my class I just tried being alpha and funny and ended up the main guy in the class, which wasn’t hard as there were no cool people in it.
I ended up pulling one girl in the class who had a major crush on my, not the best looker but best in the class.

The year ended I was 17 and I had grown in confidence but this next year was filled with all knew people and they were cool, I still had red hair but I had put a few blond highlights in it. Also some guys and girls acted like the alphas and bullies in my secondary school.
I stuck to my guns and held the frame of the leader like the year before, people still laughed at my jokes but also tested me, but as an equal this time. No one tried to bully me and no one mentioned my red hair but my mate I had made there.

He was Filipino called Jay and rolled with some could be dangerous very high alpha people.
Meeting them was very hard specially cos I was the only white boy. Jay and I also rolled with another guy and his posse, again I was the only white kid and these guys were also HARD. In both groups there were the guys that liked me and those that ignored me and a few they didn’t really want me around and tried to shit test me, but never about my hair. No one would hassle me about my hair even a few guys from my secondary school that use to.

Also I grow 7 inches over this period which made me 6 foot yes I was small at school too and skinny and pale.
I now walked with confidence and started buy semi decent clothes.

I slowly lightened my hair bit by bit to make it look natural not just a over night change. I also started putting some fake tan on not loads just like summer glow cream. I styled my hair like Leonardo DiCaprio in Romeo + Juliet (1996) and made my eyebrows a little darker, I copied his face expressions and mannerism. http://bahcecikdevekusu.com/caprio/romeo/

I was even confident enough to go for a job interview remember I was super unconfident not long ago.

In a cinema there are 1000’s of sets a day and I was soon to meet someone very influential to my life who will also introduce me to Speed seduction. Cool

Age 18 to 20

So I was going out to Kingston wear baggy white shitty shirts and black trousers shinny buckle shoes and a crap hair style

I had spots and didn’t have confidence yet to speak to women

I went to Kingston a lot as I had a few friends around there also pubs in Putney were I worked. I could talk to the girls from work and very quickly learned to tease them and neg them.

Though in the course of a year and a half I deflowered 1 girl and snogged and messed around in bed with another. Also the girl I slept with friend use to visit and I snogged her she wanted to be my GF but I left it, then later she went back with her old BF so I shamelessly stole her back then called it off again. Now why was I doing this as I couldn’t ever get girls. Well the reason is that I’d been studying Speed seduction.

So I’m just 19 and I go to the pub with my mate and his dad, I meet his dad’s mates who are older then me by 7, 8, and 10 years

One guy Mathew was 6,10 feet tall and built, fuck peacocking everyone knew he was about.

Then the Justin he was the older of the bunch 6,2 healthy and smiley, clever guy

Then there was Blade, suit jacket and bottoms, tight white t-shirt, long dark straightened hair, New Rock boots making him about 6,2

He leaned on an umbrella which he sometimes span around and pointed with and used as a prop. I have always been able to sum people up really well and I knew this guy had a secret, he was very charming and friendly, good body language and spoke softly but clearly. He had an outrageous laugh which made you laugh, he didn’t drink hardly ever smoked and trained a lot as he was well build, he looked a bit like Antonio Bandreas.

We all got on really well and I was the cheeky young chappy of the group, Blade soon became a really good friend as did the others. He started taking me to the westend were he would stop girls in the street and have then shut there eyes and go on a journey with him, or a roller coaster ride or talk about objects in shop or coffee shops. It was all so wonderful and interesting to me, I had to have in!!! Shocked

So Blade told me there was this Guru out there called Ross J and he taught guys to meet chicks in the streets and coffee shops and stores

So I tried in the Cinema at work and got a gorgeous Swedish girls to go on a date with me, she still remains one of the best looking girls I have been with we had a few dates till she went back to Sweden, but I did mess up our first date by wearing too much aftershave she sneezed all the way through the film Tongue

I use to read all Ross’s newsletters waiting eagerly for the new one to come out also had his tapes (no CD’s then) and Ross had his little book out then too, which I still have

My first ever opener which I used all the time was “has anyone ever told you you’re a shining example of genetic perfection”? I told Ross this a few weeks ago in X’s flat and he laughed and said sorry for that, I replied “why it got me laid so much and still does”. Then I told him my SS line, he loved it Grin

Anyway back to the story, so I still had no clue about club game Ross’s stuff was for day game. In Kingston for the 1yr I had been going I only ever got one snog on the dance floor.
So I thought its time to start perfecting my own art of seduction…..

Beckster

I will post this Lay report as is different to the my usual ways of Beckster pua to Fclose

Beckster normally have day2’s at my place as thats normally where they end up so might as well cut out the middle bit right

Anyway sometimes it’s not possible and Beckster must live the comfort of my castle to gain the hand of the princess.

Well last night Beckster was out on a day2 with HB8Lightblueeyes and I meet her in a gay/mixed club, as you can find really hot women in there and their Bitch shield is turned off and they might think your gay so they try to be the one that turns you etc

A good line I use in gay/mixed bars is

“If Beckster wasn’t gay I’d take you straight home” or “Wow you could turn a guy like me”.

Anyway with HB8Lightblueeyes I didn’t use these but just went in with natural game, we did some option questions on each other like “blind fold or tied up”, “quickie or foreplay” thought I heat things up quickly as I had my arm around her waist from the word go, also I was face brushing her (when you talk in her ear brush your face against hers and very very gently blow against her ear, so gently in fact that she’s not sure if you did or not) then she will normally reciprocate when talking in your ear remember to lean back in order to give her the chance to, then lean in quickie so that you both very close)

The place was closing and she said

HB8Lightblueeyes:One last question, G..
I quickly intruptide before she could get it out, grabbed her arm and pulled her to the nearest drinks ledge off the dance floor (mini venue change).
Me: You can ask me anything but am I Gay or Straight.
HB8Lightblueeyes:(She laughs) How did you know I was going to say that, ok gay or Bi?
I laughed and never answered.
Me: Guess by the way I kiss.
HB8Lightblueeyes: Ok
Kclose then #close
then she leaves.
Time duration from meet to leave 4mins.
I may add the out of the only 3 girls in the club she was the only HB.

Speed this up now Beckster text her 10mins later and she texts back arrange for her to come over Thursday.
2 days later I text her, no answer, later that day I text her again, no answer so I leave it and Wednesday she texts me do the go to (name of gym) gym.
I text something funny about her following me etc.
She calls me and shes sorry (now I got her).

HB8Lightbllueeyes:We still on for Thursday?
Me: Gotta meet people first then can meet you for 1.30 hours then gotta meet other people thought you had got lost at sea?
HB8Lightbllueeyes: Busy you, well I got tea with the queen later anyway, cool speed dating (I was thinking cool speed suduction).

We meet are Beckster change the time on her first then the tube station later, she even gets there 10mins early and I get there 5mins late

Take her to a little bar I know with a sofa.

Make her nearly piss herself laughing, we both get a round in, then I say sorry I gotta go, she says really I thought you used that as a get out clause, nope I would tell you straight I hate BS (said with a smile)

I’m gonna kiss you before I go, we kiss for few mins then I leave. Meet my mates and my LTR everyone went home after few hours. I text her she calls I go over in cab and Robert’s your mother brother

Total time knowing this girl before Fclose 1hour 15mins but the time gap in the middle of the day while shes thinking about adds up as time you see.

So you leave the mon such a high then go back after a while, they relize when your gone they left bored. I like to call this CAPTURE AND RECAPTURE. Smiley

My other lays this week were fitter but used my stardard game on them so not worth taking about.

For now soooo long……

Beckster

Word Up,

I was using boob kino about 8yrs ago while watching and extremely drunk guy who was not aware of was bumping into the girl while he swade back and forth and left and right push his hand which clasped a drink into her large breasts. I thought what a drunken fool, until i saw that she start to reciprocate buy pushing her breasts out more and even pushing them back into him

Soon they left with him leading her out and she was at a highly sexual state (leading another amazing powerful tool, which i love to talk about), so I decided to test it and the keys are:

Not looking where you are touching
Do not linger
Hardly even touch sometimes you won’t even need to if your 2mm away she can still feel it and her subconscious definitely can

Signs to watch for:Micro IOI’s (Things I personally look for)

Erect nipples
Flushed cheeks, face, chest
Shaking drink, ripples in drink from shaking e.g nervous sexual excitement / tension
Pupils dilate

Standard IOI’s:

Pushing their boobs into you (which they do from time to time anyway if you’ve ever noticed)
Looking down at their breasts (and smiling, normally)
Grabbing your wrist with drink in it and gently pulling it forward (they get carried away)

A few tactics I will share with you on it:

Misdirection move 1: Point to and mention something interesting as you hold your drink in front of you and pivot (turn into) her

Backhand maneuver: Turn sideways as if looking for someone or coughing or waving, step leg closest to her inwards to the middle of her leg nearly and then just turn back to speak to her but this time you are close and you will stoke her boobs, very innocently Always good to root it!

Fluff/lint picking: Just pick off of breast, repeat later on other breast, follow up at time with comments to make it less weird e.

“Your molting you minx, I need a new rug by my fire place, do you like roasted marshmallows”

“Is this the new just got out of bed look” (wink at her)

Do you own cat (move away pull a face), HB “No” You: cool (move into her again with a above boob kino move. Or HB: Yes I do, You: Ok then I’ll have to go home to get my cat fever pills first, you wouldn’t want me sneezing on your pussy would you
etc etc etc

Why if’s:
she looks down as if you say stop touching my boobs:

Flick up her nose/chin “got ya

Mention out loud half joking “STOP PUTTING YOUR BREASTS ON MY, I DON’T KNOW YOU WELL ENOUGH YET”, (then quieter pulling into her breast again) I need trust, comfort and a connection before we go there and we only have lust at the moment is that really enough”

She says your touch my breast:

“Well you keep looking at my crouch, (she looks down) you did it again

Or sorry I thought you gave me the boob sign HB: What? HB: “You know when you look down at your breasts” (she does it again then you say) “see you did it again”, my friend candy told me it was true, not my fault”

There are more styles and techniques but once you get good at them let me know

Remember the back of the hand is non sexual so you will get away with it more test it, put your hand on a girls leg palm up and then palm down she which one is more sexual.

I WILL LEAVE YOU ON A SAYING THAT THE SAS AND A PAIR OF DOWN AND OUT BROTHERS THAT NEVER GIVE IN AND WIN AT THE END:

Who dares wins (Rodney) who dares wins

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Beckster

Just a quick ONS report

For a talk about this one as it slightly different to other ONS is I have experienced, of a while bowling around TT on Saturday night number closing Scandinavian’s I decided to grab one and dance

I opened with a mild basic GSF engager:
Me: Do you think I would look good in a Clit?
HBScandi: What?
Me: Do you think Good look good in a kilt?
HBScandi: Yes I like men’s legs, do you own a kilt?
Me: Yes or wear it on our next date.
HBScandi: really??
Me: if you’re lucky.

Fluff, C&F, Dance spin her show off a little.

HBScandi: Do you want a drink?
Me: about time, surprise me?
HBScandi: laughs ok.
(Smirnoff ice was brought back, her first deposits on me which I know she did not want to lose about getting the final product, me!)

The change seated area, she lost bracelet worth £400 I asked a loss property they said call in a morning

She was unhappy and was nearly crying

I’d cheered her up

Major Kino, kclose, DeepGame talk. One hour from meeting back at her place. Tongue
Then said listen its time for us to go and then led her out to the taxi rank.
She paid for the taxi (second deposit on me)

All the way through the journey she said I think you should go home.
These were big sh*t tests, she also said to you want to f*ck me?
I said yes but I want to be your friend.

She kept saying the sentence at least 20 times even when we were back drinking top champagne in her luxury apartment in Edgware Road penthouse

I eventually caveman her, picked her up and said now I’m going to F*ck you hard, then tossed her on the bed

She did everything and so did I

In her Condom draw was 5 vibrators and furry white hand cuffs, tons of lub sachets I borrowed a couple.

Verdict: no matter how big the sh*t there is always away around it, the bigger the test the hard you fight back.

Clown to Crown

Beckster

A question I get a lot is,

“Hey Beckster you’ve trained me up and I’m getting loads of dates and sex but I now want a threesome.”

You first need to get a head of your stable, most of your orders go through her.

Not going into too much detail but the basics.

Top of Stable Requirements:
Loyal
Respectful
Openminded
SEXUAL
Bi or Curious
Can lead women
Can pull women
Normally very hot or very sexual or both
Knows your the boss and that she is second but both can say stop at anytime

Always show her that she is top of stable (TOS) , not relationships with any of the others just sex.

One method is to pull many women at different times for 3sums then say your have a all girl party as its safe and fun and (Beckster) is the only guy invite as we have all had him and he know who to treat us etc (best to get your TOS does most of the arranging)

Now you and her have a small group coming you can invite people off facebook groups or net or friends (girls) you might think might wanna try, no pressure to him they can just watch.

This in turn builds up then you got a good little regular sex party going on now and then and them girls invite other girls Wink

I told Neil Strauss about this in his hotel bar a year ish ago I wonder if he’s doing it

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Over the course of the weekend, you’ll be immersed in a hard-core learning environment from start to finish. We give you the tools you need to get girls attracted to you FAST, and the skills and self-confidence you need to convert that attraction into something more.

Knowing what to do and when to do it can shave YEARS off of your learning curve. That’s YEARS of crash & burns you won’t have to endure, YEARS of going home alone you won’t have to suffer through.

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Enjoy,

Beckster

Hey man,

This is a quick easy one I came up with lately and have been using it to full effect.

Its low risk sexual from the start and fun.
It taps into what girls like and also puts sexy imagines up in their heads.
Its rapport break, qualification, sexual escalation both verbal & kino.

What’s better, good shoes or good sex?

# Why
The reason this routine works is because it smoothly gets the subject onto good sex.

# How to
Good to use as statement/routine roughly 2-20 min into conversation.
You: What’s better, good shoes or good sex?

Scenario 1
Target: Both at the same time?
You: That’s greedy, (pause) and perfect. (Give her hug)

Scenario 2
Target: (She will answer shoes or sex)
You: How about good sex (point to self) wearing good shoes?
Her: Well yes! (or something to that effect)
You: That’s greedy, (pause) and perfect. (Give her hug)

These two scenarios seem the same yet have subtle differences. Like the second scenario I had to hint about having good sex combined with good shoes, first scenario she hinted it, hence first scenario is more of an IOI.

Then follow up with my open toe, closed toe routine, cold read while kino’ing her feet and hint also, “good shoes indicate good taste in underwear”, don’t you think?”
She won’t have had her feet touched that night and i know some women don’t like it but it will be in a way they won’t mind. Also if shes sitting done after this pull her leg up and put it on your lap and say “I need a closer inspection of these killer shoes”

Then your pretty much sorted and ready to bounce her somewhere.

BTW if you want a little opener to go with this routine then I use this:

I walk up shoulder foot and a half apart and point down at their shoes, as they look down I say “I can’t believe your wearing them shoes in this place!”
or “I can’t believe your wearing them shoes in this weather!”
Trail your hand up her leg to crotch slowly until you get to her belly button, she may giggle when you reach this point as your accessing a tickle area or a chakra area for the spiritual people out there Also passing by the erogenous zone & chakra. Feel free to stop there too if feeling brave I tend to sometimes too.

Then she might say some along the lines of “why”?
You: its brave and I’m glad you didn’t, it made me wanna say hi! So hi god damn it Wink

It’s been emotional,

Beckster

Hey guys,

I have made up a 3-way kiss routine.

But I’m the only one that’s ever field tested it, test it out if you got the guts (joking).

Ok, goes something like this (but I change it and tweek it every time so try a variation that you’re comfortable with)

First you must build up the comfort with wit and humour, be cockey too, but in a way that makes everyone happy.

Kino both HB’s a lot and build it up, give them both intimate time with you when one goes to the toilet/bar/use phone, start being a bit more serious like when seducing them, then do the other when she’s free. Then do it to each of them again, but in front of each other so it seems to the other HB that it’s the first time your turning on the charm with her mate and how easy you do it will attract her then again, do the other one too

The attraction will be high also the competition between women will also be strong, now you can say something like this:
(Use this old one first)

Me: “Who kisses better, men or women”?

HB’s:Women blur blur blur

Me: So you have kissed a women before

HB’s: (Always seem to say) Yes, blur blur blur

Me: There’s this test to find out which are better kissers, but you wouldn’t be interested as your friends, even though everyone at my Uni parties use to test the theory and it worked soooo well? …… Are you both open minded

HB’s: Yes (Now you have just got them to say yes to doing the game, but it way you have asked them, they have said yes to everything you ask in the sentence) now to confirm it before they realise, quickly say before they speak again

Me: I knew you two would be cool and open minded, some people can be soo boring and miss out on fun and great opportunities, you both grab and up for life right?

HB’s: Yes (they normally giggle or something, remember you don’t have to say this word for word).

Me: Ok are you ready?

HB’s: Yes (Now I have made them say yes 3 times, the yes ladder is so powerful).

Me: Now this may seem weird to hear, but to feel how it works afterwards you will be amazed. Do you like being amazed by new and exciting things? (REMEMBER PAUSES).

HB’s: Yes (one more yes for luck lol, you can make them say yes them all day if you like and anchor it too).

Me: Ok all hold hands in a circle (you can be sitting or standing), now we must connect our lips together much like a kiss and the currents in our bodies will be attracted to the most strongest current (you can add this bit to if you want but don’t kill the moment “did you know each human body gives off enough electricity to power a light bulb”).

Now girls shut your eyes and as we kiss on 3 (seconds) hold it there for 5 seconds try to feel who is giving off more power, if it’s the same we all our compatible.

Go though the motions and turn it into a snog. If this doesn’t work either blame them for trying to snog you or say, I wanna try that again.

If you feel one was kissing you more, then you’ll be able to kiss her as soon as you alone with her, tell her you felt it more with her, did she with you, she should say yes as she was kissing you more then the other HB.

Also you can get 3somes from this, I have and I haven’t even experiment much with it.

Messy kisses to you all Tongue

Beckster

After Sex – Medium Investments increasing to Large Investments

She looks you up on Facebook
She pays for dinners
She gets jealous when seeing you interacting with other women
She pays for transport to visit you
She buys you a present
She reveals sexual desires to you
She introduces you to her friends
She introduces you to her parents

Investment can come in many different forms and it is basically just getting someone to do something for you. People can either invest because you ask them to or they do it on their own. For instance you could ask a girl to buy you a drink. This is something that you are asking the girl to do, you are giving her a hoop. Alternatively the girl could look you up on Facebook and then send you an email. Here the girl is investing her time and thought of her own accord. Both are forms of investment and they usually come in the form of time, emotion or finance.

I stress again that you don’t want the girl to invest too much into you otherwise you will get an extremely unattractive clingy girl. In a relationship it is good to be fair – generally, just be aware if you are investing too much into something.

If you aren’t in a relationship yet though then it is always a good idea to get her investing as much as possible. Getting a girl to buy you a drink when you meet her in the bar will result in a much higher probability of you seeing her again. Why? You probably know the answer to this already  She has more invested in you and so rationalises that you must be a cool guy. She would only buy a drink for a cool guy and so you must have been special.

A fantastic post I’ve found by Manwhore, enjoy

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Controlling your Emotional State:
Most people base their emotional state, their idea of success, and even their own self-esteem on where they think society would place them. Whether it be because we see the media pick apart celebrities and politicians or because magazines and the like tell us what to wear, look like, and even act like- this idea is ingrained in us- it is fundamental- it is our lens on reality.


But the problem is not that some magazine has a cool and interesting idea on how they think a male should act and look- but that people now doubt their own originality and way of doing things. Basic things like uttering a thought outloud, people’s opinions on their own personal talents and skills- i.e. an artist thinking he’s shit ‘cuz he can’t play sports, even being in tune and acting on your desires- it’s all done through a filter. Fuck the filter. Are you where you want to be, are you taking action in your life? Are you working to improve yourself..? Take your own word for how you think you should feel. Everyone else will take your word for it. People will only judge you for how you judge yourself. Now realize that some of you will have to work a little harder at this because you are dealing with people who think they know who you are and don’t want you to change.


A friend of mine snuck her 16 year old sister into a bar- they’d had dinner there earlier and then never left. Someone who knew her got jealous of the attention she was getting from the guys and told management. So security came for her sister and took her to another part of the bar to question her. My friend found me with a scared bewildered look on her face- her emotional/mental state was hopeless- she was in no condition to do anything to help her sister. She had been completely overwhelmed by the situation. She asked if I could do anything. I went and found her sister being questioned by security- she was in even worse condition- they were questioning her about how she got into the bar and she couldn’t even form words to talk. She was just looking up imploringly at the bouncer with a helpless and scared look on her face. The problem at this point is that the bouncer could tell the girl was under his spell, it was power and he really didn’t want to give it up. He’d projected a frame of her being guilty and she’d fallen right into it, he was master at this point. I walked up, announced calmly to the guy that she had been having dinner with her sister earlier and that now she was now going to simply leave. It took him a bit to even want to acknowledge me, I repeated myself firmly and said she just needed to leave now. She got some of her bearing back and nodded her head in acknowledgement. He stood there for a couple seconds more and then simply said, “ok go.”


“Hey.. do you believe in magic spells? ” I do


This is typical. Every day people react to situations in the manner in which they think they should be reacting or are used to reacting. It’s like they live in a program: the social Matrix. ‘Ok I got caught.. cue negative feelings of guilt, insecurity and bullshit.’ Or ‘She doesn’t like me, there must be something wrong with me. I’m not good enough to get women like that.’ Do NOT let someone or something- a situation- project a negative frame onto you. Own your emotional reaction. It is yours to control! Realize that you can choose to let something bother you and ruin your day- or not. Your emotions and feelings aren’t meant to just come and go based on external factors.. I think some people think they are. Discipline your mind. Otherwise someone will perceive they have authority over you and own you, a woman will see these cues and not give you the time of day. A woman will look to your cues to see how to react to you and how to perceive you- are you high value? Does her little attitude bother you? If it does then you’re not what she wants.. this is the female screening process.

Real Communication: Male/Female Dynamics
Some of you guys seem hardwired to be combative with girls… like you need for them to validate your dominant frame or at least recognize it. You don’t..


In the past I would be guilty of this also, I look back now and realize that if I’d just not allowed myself to become involved in these situations (mentally or emotionally), there wouldn’t have been an issue, and these females would responded to me much better. Women were never meant to be the judge of a guy’s value.. they are hardwired to pick at it! If a guy allows a girl any room to be a judge of his value- he is automatically lower value. I think this might actually apply across the board of human interaction.


Girls are.. girls. They aren’t meant -or even enough- to bring out my dominant side. But my vibe communicates that I seriously handle my shit. They know it.. but they won’t have to experience it themselves. This is actually what they want. We are men.. we fight lions, the earthly elements, provide strong emotional context for what matters and what doesn’t (when girlies wrap themselves emotionally around dumb shit), and.. WE DO NOT GET IN CONTESTS WITH WOMEN.


A quick note on comfort building: Introduce your values- don’t just go for a stronger emotional connection. You should be using this time to make her realize you are nonjudgmental about her being a sexual creature and acting on her desires. I’ve heard some guys post that the girl “figures out” what you’re doing and maybe even calls you on it. But this shouldn’t be a problem. Project. Project feeling and sincerity. Body language, eye contact and voice. I make girls comfortable talking about and expressing their sexuality. I communicate that this is just the kind of dude I am- it’s my reality. Your identity needs to be that of a guy who gives and receives attention from females. Freeflow. You just.. respond to things different than other guys. You can be the guy who banged a girl in a closet, and there’s a guy right next to you who’s getting sexual harrassment charges for being creepy, because.. his behavior is just not acceptable in the workplace. He didn’t give himself permission to be this way, acted incongruent- therefore he didn’t deserve to be acting like that. Girls picked up on this. I just read Tyler’s article on the “Secret Society”. That’s what I’m talking about here..

Controlling your frame before projecting sexuality:
A lot of guys probably think I’m some rabid sexual monster- that I just lay on the sexual vibe without regard to the mental state of the woman I am talking to- that my skill lies in so getting a woman to accept the strong game I “throw” at her. This is really not the case- it is actually very well calibrated to the state she’s in.. the difference is that I can actually put her there- I can get her ready for what I really want. When I recognize her signs (basically how strong she’s reacting to my cues) I act on them, I grab her and pull her in, I give her sexual eye contact, I tell her upfront what I’m going to do to her, I lift up her skirt or gaze at her body plainly. Maybe she’s not ready for something so potent, so I’ll calibrate to the level she’s at, rinse wash repeat. The most important thing I can do, is touch her. More on this later.


Some girls I can be quite upfront with, others I know I have to approach the topic in a roundabout way- either they’re just not in touch with it because of ASD or they’re just not sexual people. I do this with some skill- usually through misinterpretation, jokes, telling her a story that starts off sounding so innocent but with a sexual side, or just through plain kino. One girl who I could tell was quite reserved and out of touch with her sexuality I told a story about a physical I got from a doctor who wanted to turn off the lights so he could “get a better look”. So when I was done we started talking about her experiences with gynecologists- she said it was uncomfortable being laid out naked on a table and having them use steel instruments on her. I was laughing, It was a perfect opportunity- I realized her frame on it was negative, so what I did was project a fun positive vibe about her lying there like that, and then told her if it had been me I would have put my instruments in the freezer before she came in. She laughed. So I turned an uncomfortable topic for her into a fun one and then put myself in it in a sexual way. This wasn’t a natural flow of the conversation either- it was a buildup of sexualness and I was listening to her cues to make sure she was in my frame. It’s more than realizing she’s actually listening to me and building off the thread I start, it’s listening for her tonal responsiveness to my reality. When she’s accepted my take on things then I know I can proceed.


I control, or take over the frame with vocal and tonal projection. Bottom line. Eye contact is already there, so is relaxed confident body language. You need to have these down already. Be relaxed with yourself and your surroundings. There is no reason not to be relaxed around people and be able to look people in the eye and stand there relaxed.. people want you to be this way. They’re more comfortable this way. But don’t concern yourself with acting overly “cool” or Alpha. Just. Be. Relaxed. “The Self is always showing through..”


Going back to vocal projection- a lot of people say don’t care about other people’s reaction to you, yet when you’re socializing and projecting this seems almost counterintuitive.. aren’t you trying to get a reaction? Aren’t we “running game”? We are actively looking for compliance cues from females and even males- so how can we not care? I understand the point of this whole “don’t care what people think” but for new guys who don’t understand the underlying concept it possibly confuses them. Maybe a more helpful framing of this concept would be to say that when you speak, sound like you expect a good reaction- that you want people to hear what you have to say, more than just trying to get people’s attention- your mannerism demands it. So you project it for all to hear with a carefree attitude. Realize that this is what a socially well-calibrated person actually sounds like. There’s a solid Mmmphf to your voice.. it doesn’t waiver or falter, and it does not fade off. If you find yourself saying something that you don’t think is going to be acceptable, you either cut yourself off with a “-wait fuck that that’s not what I meant” or just say it and act normal. Do not ever let your sentence trail away into obscurity or your voice fall into a mumble. That is death.


I am a military officer- I have to sound like I’m in charge. Whether I’m telling dudes to mop the floors or we’re rolling up on an “enemy” position and my platoon needs my directives, My voice can say so much about my internal state- I need it to say I’m the one they should be listening to.


But I modulate my voice to the environment I’m in. I’m not going to be barking all the time- even with my soldiers. When I was in sales and I was speaking to a housewife I made my voice sound “nicer” and sweeter, when I had a male customer my voice hardened slightly. Calibration. When a guy pulled a gun in my face I spoke evenly and calmly, I did not let the situation escalate by sounding scared, or sounding aggressive, I think my buddy pooed his pants though and that ruined it- the dude smelled his fear.


My tonality is flexible- I want it to be able to communicate different things when I want. My projection remains even- I have something to communicate and you and you and you, are going to listen. You can hold attention with your voice- ‘When I speak.. people listen.’ Even if you’re not in the mood to be social and be the party guy it doesn’t mean you have to sound like you’re a lesser value guy. Answer people with gusto- be comfortable holding attention when it is required or asked of you, even if for a little bit.


When I speak with females my voice is softer and has a greater tonality range. Sometimes I even coo. I don’t “bark” at females, they don’t want to be barked at, they just want to know that you have the capacity to bark. They might try to instigate you, at this point you want to be unreactive, but if they overstep your boundaries then you quickly let them know. And then subside.. we fight lions and tigers.. a male getting into a power contest with a female shows a fundamental weakness on his part. A man does not fret over what a woman thinks of him.


More on the military.. Many senior NCOs- E6s and above- are used to being able to project over an inexperienced or unsure Lieutenant, even though the LT outranks them- it’s taking advantage, and I can’t blame them. I walked into a situation the other day where a senior NCO was putting another Lieutenant on the spot over something silly- it wasn’t even an accusation, just a way of projecting and phrasing something that made the Lieutenant feel like he was obligated to answer the NCO the way he wanted. Then he tried it on me, not quite the same reaction.. I just stood there looking at him and said “WHAT?” Simple projection of my voice- no accusation, just subcommunicating to him that I knew my role and I was sure of myself. The frame changed. By looking at him evenly and comfortably- and speaking the same way, his manner of communicating changed, This wasn’t about me “being in charge.” I don’t need stupid validation like that, this was a man to man “don’t pull that crap on me” vibe. Simple mutual respect.

Physicalness is the last key:
I was with my wing SDC (Austin) a couple of weeks ago in San Diego’s PB Bar & Grill. I saw two very attractive blonds sitting down at the bar having a drink. I opened them with “HEEY are you speaking Spanish..?” With a quizzical look on my face, I was slightly leaned in, demanding an answer but my overall vibe was one of fun. She laughed and said something. I laughed and said something. Blah blah. Then they continued on their conversation- I heard one of them say to the other about some guy being “so anal about this shit!” I leaned in again.. “By the way.. (pause and quickly look at the other girl before continuing on) I’m anal about my shit too ” They both laughed- the set was now open. I slowly escalated sexual topic until we were talking about blowjobs and facials and the like. One of the girls was a pregnant housewife- gorgeous girl, and she asked me why some guys liked pregnant women. I made up a reason on the spot about how us guys put a pillow under a girl’s tummy to lift up her bottom and give us better access to it- whether we’re tonguing her down or entering her from behind- and that her being pregnant did this for us already. I got them talking very freely about their sexuality, the things they wanted to try and stuff. I told the single girl I was going to find us a mexican girl to take home with us, she laughed and gave a little resistance. Anyways long story short I got her number and myspace and then told them we were going to take off, I leaned in and pulled her into me to give her a hug and kiss, shook the other girl’s hand and we walked away. SDC said to me, “All that ‘game’, all that sexual stuff you were talking about with them, didn’t mean anything until you gave her a hug.” FUCK! He was so right. It really didn’t mean anything, didn’t have any kind of real connection. The real anchor is always in physical touch.


The Claw: If you guys aren’t comfortable touching a girl and being relaxed and confident about it, you’re fucked. You just aren’t gonna get laid. I’ve talked to a couple of you who have actually told me, “Well I just don’t like to be touched.. it makes me uncomfortable.” confused Women are sensual creatures, they can tell a lot about a person through how they’re touched by them. Is this person comfortable in his own skin enough to be that close with someone else? Do they see themselves as high value enough and their reality strong enough that they can just assume someone else would want to be part of it? Is this person a sexually experienced person? This is why the claw is so powerful- it’s attraction/comfort/dominance/seduction/fool’s mate all in one. Remember you don’t just put your arm around her shoulder like a wet dishrag, you grab her, hold her and pull her in to you. The claw is dynamic- the grip is dynamic- it’s not a feeling she can dismiss like background noise- she feels it’s presence at all times.


When I meet a girl for a first date I immediately get physical with her. I’ll casually walk up on the side of her and claw her in, I’ll give her a squeeze and then let her go- walking at my own pace and letting her fall in-step with me. If she says something cute or we make random eye contact I’ll pull her in to a light headlock, maybe give her a noogie and then push her away from me. When I’m out publicly with her I project vocally to whoever I’m interacting with- whether it be a movie ticket salesman or a waiter. She wants to see this. When we sit down together I take up a lot of space, I subtly take over her area also. This is why I like taking girls to see a movie- my physical presence is just so palpable with her sitting next to me. At this point I will reach my arm that’s on her side across her body to her opposite thigh and hold her there, slightly pulling her in. It’s another version of the claw. I’ll pull her in and slightly behind me so my shoulder is in front of hers and I’m slightly leaning back against her. Picture this. She feels very protected and in your space whether she realizes it or not. It’s a very dominant way to sit with a girl.


I think there’s pros and cons to taking a girl to any type of movie- I take her to a movie that I want to see. I like horror movies and action flicks- but If scary movies make you nervous let me know, I’ll give your girl a call and explain things to her.


I don’t always employ the claw when I am first meeting girls- I’d say when I’m in the club, at a bar, walking the streets or approaching girls randomly I use it immediately about 60-65% of the time. But I can tell when she’s not immediatley open, in which case I’ll open with something else to prep her for my physicalness. I’m very sensitive to her state- usually if she’s willing to stand there and talk to you even for a second and respond to you she wants to be clawed, if she wants to be clawed she’s open to be kissed.


Yes I use the claw during the day.


A lot of you guys don’t know or refuse to take on the role you are meant to have in male/female interactions. You want the comfort and security of knowing that she’s going to respond well to your advances. You want us to tell you the exact scientific steps to opening her up and compelling her to make the moves. Stop being a vagina. You are not a vagina. You are all males.. know your role. Males are aggressive and bold about their actions and desires. Females are biologically hardwired to respond to this. Sure you might have a girl not respond well to your initial advance. Boohoo. We do not apologize for our desires as males. Some women might try and see if we will apologize- they might put on a good show for us.. but this isn’t what they want. This is the difference between coming off as a creepy horndog, and a masculine, Alpha male with a naturally strong sexual drive. These guys have permission to be this way.. they take it. The others don’t.


Do not think you’ll be able to hide your own desires, not having to act on them until she makes the first move.
Take responsibility for the fact that you will lead the interaction with the girl. This isn’t about your comfort. It’s about hers..


Also realize that you don’t have to be concerned with every single little body nuance or flash of eye contact. I am not 100% ultra-masculine all of the time. It doesn’t matter.. she knows what I am from my overall communication. After a certain point her perception of you will be so set that when she does notice something not quite rock-hard in mannerism, she’ll appreciate it even more. She’ll feel she’s earned a peek at your softer more vulnerable side. She wants to see this- she wants to know you have this side of you- this is established comfort with her.


Violence and Amogs:
The military has a lot to offer on this concept. So much is fundamentally built into teaching us the way to communicate. I deal sometimes with soldiers who have fucked up enough to be decreed unfit for military duty. Disrespectful, noncompliant, whatever.. they’re out- and they know it. Yet when I am present there is no room for any of this bullshit. My mannerisms and way of acting only allows for them to treat me with respect. I don’t look to them to see if I’m doing the right thing, or if I’m being a “cool” Lieutenant, or if they’re listening to what I’m saying. I walked into a situation where four of these soldiers were standing face to face, red and screaming, about to throw blows. I walked right into the middle of it- absolutely no room or time for hesitation. “What the FUCK is going on here.. All of you- go downstairs.” That was it. There was no room for them to project an aggressive attitude on me- I wanted to know what they were doing. I was the one projecting- not them.


I had an ex-girlfriend a few years ago who went into the boys bathroom with her friend because the girl’s line was so long. A bouncer put his hands on them and basically forced them out. They immediately got into a confrontation with the guy- yelling, screaming, calling him names. He got aggressive- standing there with fists clenched, calling them names back and acting threatening- a hulking black guy getting in a confrontation with two little 5′5″ females. All of it absolutely worthless and wasted effort. He attempted to talk to me- but I wanted nothing to do with him. I was not going to directly address him and let him think we were on the same level. I called for his manager. The manager came, immediately trying to use his bulk to cower me. It didn’t even enter into my reality. I explained to him what happened and told him he had a physically aggressive bouncer putting his hands on females. He said, “But they were in the boys bathroom.” I looked at him calmly and said, “That’s not the point.” He said.. “you’re right.” and sent the guy walking immediately. Stupidly the bouncer and the two girls were still fighting with each other as he walked off down the street.