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Hey Bro,

Here is a bit of background of how I got into game.

Part 1 Age 9 to 17 years

These a point to this whole story (somewhere lol)….

Most people ask me on seminars/bootcamps and 1on1’s were you always this good with women, here’s your answer.

Really I don’t consider myself ginger not anymore, that person isn’t dead but merged with a higher being an evolved Rob/Beckster. Some might say altar ego. Cool

It was fine at primary school St John’s I even had a girl friend and a few snogs and the girl next door (well 2 doors away) was my girl friend to, she even came to me with her friend and said can we both go out with you, I was 9 or 10 at the time. She even lock me in her room smoke cigs and said if I didn’t kiss her she would say it was me.

I was definitely a natural them days, I even was thinking of routines to pull girls then.
So no issues with my hair colour then.

Secondary came Sheen school, yes you guessed it so did the names and bullying a lot of my friends went to other schools, I always stuck up for myself or ignored people that hassled me but it did dent my confidence by probably 90% which is a hell of a lot I was now an total AFC.
I had one girl friend through this time and not for long and it was at 13.
I fancied a girl at school who I hardly ever spoke to (now I know her very well but that’s for later maybe).

I went to Richmond college with a new attitude in life and I didn’t know anyone in my class and not many in my college.

I changed my hair style to curtains it was either that or a skin head (wish I’d gone for the skin head now).

One girl knew me called Candy ran over to me and we chatted that never happened in secondary school. We made friends other the holidays and she was friends with my buddy Spanners. She noticed my new hair it gave me a boast of confidence.

In my class I just tried being alpha and funny and ended up the main guy in the class, which wasn’t hard as there were no cool people in it.
I ended up pulling one girl in the class who had a major crush on my, not the best looker but best in the class.

The year ended I was 17 and I had grown in confidence but this next year was filled with all knew people and they were cool, I still had red hair but I had put a few blond highlights in it. Also some guys and girls acted like the alphas and bullies in my secondary school.
I stuck to my guns and held the frame of the leader like the year before, people still laughed at my jokes but also tested me, but as an equal this time. No one tried to bully me and no one mentioned my red hair but my mate I had made there.

He was Filipino called Jay and rolled with some could be dangerous very high alpha people.
Meeting them was very hard specially cos I was the only white boy. Jay and I also rolled with another guy and his posse, again I was the only white kid and these guys were also HARD. In both groups there were the guys that liked me and those that ignored me and a few they didn’t really want me around and tried to shit test me, but never about my hair. No one would hassle me about my hair even a few guys from my secondary school that use to.

Also I grow 7 inches over this period which made me 6 foot yes I was small at school too and skinny and pale.
I now walked with confidence and started buy semi decent clothes.

I slowly lightened my hair bit by bit to make it look natural not just a over night change. I also started putting some fake tan on not loads just like summer glow cream. I styled my hair like Leonardo DiCaprio in Romeo + Juliet (1996) and made my eyebrows a little darker, I copied his face expressions and mannerism. http://bahcecikdevekusu.com/caprio/romeo/

I was even confident enough to go for a job interview remember I was super unconfident not long ago.

In a cinema there are 1000’s of sets a day and I was soon to meet someone very influential to my life who will also introduce me to Speed seduction. Cool

Age 18 to 20

So I was going out to Kingston wear baggy white shitty shirts and black trousers shinny buckle shoes and a crap hair style

I had spots and didn’t have confidence yet to speak to women

I went to Kingston a lot as I had a few friends around there also pubs in Putney were I worked. I could talk to the girls from work and very quickly learned to tease them and neg them.

Though in the course of a year and a half I deflowered 1 girl and snogged and messed around in bed with another. Also the girl I slept with friend use to visit and I snogged her she wanted to be my GF but I left it, then later she went back with her old BF so I shamelessly stole her back then called it off again. Now why was I doing this as I couldn’t ever get girls. Well the reason is that I’d been studying Speed seduction.

So I’m just 19 and I go to the pub with my mate and his dad, I meet his dad’s mates who are older then me by 7, 8, and 10 years

One guy Mathew was 6,10 feet tall and built, fuck peacocking everyone knew he was about.

Then the Justin he was the older of the bunch 6,2 healthy and smiley, clever guy

Then there was Blade, suit jacket and bottoms, tight white t-shirt, long dark straightened hair, New Rock boots making him about 6,2

He leaned on an umbrella which he sometimes span around and pointed with and used as a prop. I have always been able to sum people up really well and I knew this guy had a secret, he was very charming and friendly, good body language and spoke softly but clearly. He had an outrageous laugh which made you laugh, he didn’t drink hardly ever smoked and trained a lot as he was well build, he looked a bit like Antonio Bandreas.

We all got on really well and I was the cheeky young chappy of the group, Blade soon became a really good friend as did the others. He started taking me to the westend were he would stop girls in the street and have then shut there eyes and go on a journey with him, or a roller coaster ride or talk about objects in shop or coffee shops. It was all so wonderful and interesting to me, I had to have in!!! Shocked

So Blade told me there was this Guru out there called Ross J and he taught guys to meet chicks in the streets and coffee shops and stores

So I tried in the Cinema at work and got a gorgeous Swedish girls to go on a date with me, she still remains one of the best looking girls I have been with we had a few dates till she went back to Sweden, but I did mess up our first date by wearing too much aftershave she sneezed all the way through the film Tongue

I use to read all Ross’s newsletters waiting eagerly for the new one to come out also had his tapes (no CD’s then) and Ross had his little book out then too, which I still have

My first ever opener which I used all the time was “has anyone ever told you you’re a shining example of genetic perfection”? I told Ross this a few weeks ago in X’s flat and he laughed and said sorry for that, I replied “why it got me laid so much and still does”. Then I told him my SS line, he loved it Grin

Anyway back to the story, so I still had no clue about club game Ross’s stuff was for day game. In Kingston for the 1yr I had been going I only ever got one snog on the dance floor.
So I thought its time to start perfecting my own art of seduction…..

Beckster

Hey, this text routine has got me laid more than any other routine,

Text 1: Hay u (or a name you gave her e.g. sticky, minx etc), how’s tricks, it was short but sweet meeting you.(mention a joke you shared), Beckster x p.s Do you like roasted marshmellows?

Reg HB replies I get are it order of a good response:

Yes I love them! Blar………….
Yes who doesn’t? Blar………….
No are they nice? Blar………….
Yes the pink ones? blar blar………….
I like (another sort of sweet e.g. popcorn, smarties etc).

Sometimes they reply things like “yeah there sweet and sticky like me (-;
Food with sex why not (-; xxx
What are you going to do with them xxx

Text 2: Yes I love them to (or there sweet and sticky like me, cool you can have the pink ones) I have them on my DVD evenings with wine. Do you like movies? Beckster p.s what’s your fav flav of wine Red or white?

Hb:
White every time! Blar blar………….
Depends on what food it’s with (-; (marshmellows you stupid bitch!!! joke don’t reply with this Cheesy)
Red of course. blar balr………….
Rose.
Bubbles baby.

Good rare ones have been:
I like a bath with my wine (-;
Red will go with my nighty xxx
I like both with you xxxx
I’ll bring both as it’s gonna be a long night (-; (she did as well Shocked)

Text 3: the bits it brackets don’t write I’m explaining how the text works.
I like rose in the winter myself (whatever season it is, also not agreeing with her), hay you should join me on my DVD, roasted marshmellows and Wine night (still not really inviting her directly), but what would you rather pick the movie or the wine?(the challenge) are you good at picking wine? Beckster P.s What’s your fav sort of movie comedy, horror or romance? (End in romance, last thing on her mind)

Her Replies and what they normally mean about her.
Horror (means she likes to be protected a lot, so hold her a lot keep her safe, she will normally be a little quite but also open minded to sex).
Comedy This is the worst Angry means they just want a laugh so you will have to work to bed them, but that’s another story Cheesy Also it’s hard to be sexual while laughing.
Romance: Means she wants you Wink
Any reply is 95% a yes to come on your DVD night.

Text4: (Logistics)
I like Rom Com Wink cool I just got some new movies in too!
I free at the moment on Tues or weds (pick any days you want), would you rather meet at (pick places near you place seems like your giving her choices and she’s always in control, insane Wink)

There’s my 10 cents Cool

Beckster

A question I get a lot is,

“Hey Beckster you’ve trained me up and I’m getting loads of dates and sex but I now want a threesome.”

You first need to get a head of your stable, most of your orders go through her.

Not going into too much detail but the basics.

Top of Stable Requirements:
Loyal
Respectful
Openminded
SEXUAL
Bi or Curious
Can lead women
Can pull women
Normally very hot or very sexual or both
Knows your the boss and that she is second but both can say stop at anytime

Always show her that she is top of stable (TOS) , not relationships with any of the others just sex.

One method is to pull many women at different times for 3sums then say your have a all girl party as its safe and fun and (Beckster) is the only guy invite as we have all had him and he know who to treat us etc (best to get your TOS does most of the arranging)

Now you and her have a small group coming you can invite people off facebook groups or net or friends (girls) you might think might wanna try, no pressure to him they can just watch.

This in turn builds up then you got a good little regular sex party going on now and then and them girls invite other girls Wink

I told Neil Strauss about this in his hotel bar a year ish ago I wonder if he’s doing it

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Enjoy,

Beckster

I try to keep this Love Systems insider (LSi ) at an accessible level for newcomers. Most men who have more advanced skills from using Magic Bullets ’ Emotional Progression Model and the database of routines in the Love Systems’ Routines Manual (or a bootcamp) tend to know their way around Love Systems and how where to find advanced material, whether it’s through individualized training , one of the 25 different interviews available at www.SeductionInfo.com (including over four hours of free audio), or The Lounge. (The Lounge is a free but private and exclusive discussion forum for Love Systems instructors and men we’ve trained in-person at bootcamps, seminars, or one-on-ones).

However, it also happens that sometimes we come up with something so useful and so groundbreaking that everyone is talking about it anyway, so even if it might take some time to explain it in the LSi , it’s worth doing. That’s clearly the case with our breakthroughs in Social Circle Mastery . Social Circle game used to focus on turning “friends” into “friends with benefits” but we’ve gone far, far beyond this, into actively managing your social circle to produce and attract astoundingly beautiful women – and even taking the core concepts beyond dating science into life goals. Don’t worry – it only makes our system for turning “let’s just be friends” into “friends with benefits” (or more) even more effective, and we still cover this extensively as part of our new Social Circle Mastery seminars.

There’s a long waiting list for these seminars, since they depend on Braddock and Mr. M ’s schedule (right now we only have London, Los Angeles and Chicago on the schedule, email us to be notified when we come to your city), but this way at least we can bring a taste of it to you so you can start using it right away. A lot of these conversations started in But this stuff is so important, so interesting, and so useful that we wanted to bring at least a taste of it to the LSi – especially for men who aren’t going to be able to make it to the one-day Social Circle Mastery seminars that are teaching in London, Los Angeles, New York, and Chicago.

Over to Mr. M ….

Social Circle Mastery: Revealing the Social Matrix, by Mr. M .
Part 1: The Structure of Your Social Life

‘Social Circle Mastery’ is the foundation of “next generation” pick up and dating techniques. It takes us beyond relying only on “cold approach” to meet women and enhance your social life. (Cold approach is someone you don’t know and don’t really have any connection to). It has several purposes – to make it easier to meet and seduce “10s” (shorthand for top models, beautiful actresses, Playmates, and other women who are the elite of the elite, at least in terms of looks) – and also to better manage your social life in general and to understand the social dynamics that affect any group situation, such as school or work.
Background

Before I begin, Braddock and I have one confession – we were never intending to develop an all-encompassing system for managing your social life. We were just looking for new and more consistent ways to seduce 10s. Don’t get me wrong – the Love Systems approach that I teach at bootcamps around the world, that I contributed my best and most secret routines to in the Love Systems’ Routines Manual, that I wrote a chapter on Inner Game for the next edition of Savoy ’s Magic Bullets , and that I contribute my newest insights to in the SeductionInfo.com advanced interview series – it all works, and it’s amazing. It’s a cliché to say that Love Systems changed my life, but it’s true. And every weekend when we teach a program, we change another dozen lives. As a cold approach system, it’s revolutionary and amazing and I am never going to stop doing cold approach.
But cold approach has inherent limitations. If I want a 10 tonight and there’s no 10 where I go out, there’s not much I can do. Even Savoy can’t seduce a woman who isn’t there. There’s luck involved, and we wanted to control the impact of chance. Chance isn’t always bad – sometimes random opportunities come your way, and if you have the skills to take advantage, it can be amazing. The seduction of the famous Playboy Playmate that I wrote about in a previous LSi is a perfect example – if you missed it, there’s a summary here.
Anyway, back to 10s. On an immediate level, we use our social circles in two different but related ways:

* As a source of beautiful women. Of course, this only happened when we learned how to find, join, and lead social circles that have these beautiful women in them. This is what led us to the MRB5 model, which I will get into below.
* As “glue”. With any woman, there’s always a chance that her logistics (other commitments, friends, etc.) will prevent you from seducing her on the same night you meet her. We’ve all succeeded against heroic odds and those make the best stories, but the mundane reality is that, for example, the runway model you just met after a fashion show probably isn’t going to be able to go anywhere with you that night, no matter how good you are. By building and managing social circles in the right way, you can absorb her into your life and grow her interest in you without you actually doing anything. We call this “slow burn game”

It sounds easy in theory, right? The devil is in the details. It does take some work, with the lifestyle that Braddock and I and other guys who are using Social Circle Mastery are using, it’s so worth it.

Before I get into some of the specifics, I want to reassure you that before Love Systems I was not naturally great at social situations. I was never the popular guy in school and my social life since then wasn’t a whirlwind of activity. Braddock ’s story is slightly different (and hopefully we can get him to tell it in an upcoming LSi ) but the point is that you don’t have to be one of the naturally socially powerful people to succeed with Social Circle Mastery .

Having social circle mastery means that you have the lifestyle, the friends, the connections, the access to people/places/parties/events and the hot women in your social circle . Beautiful women should be plentiful, abundant and dying to be a part of your social circle and your life. It is a social magnetism towards your life. It also means having the ability to seduce women like a rockstar through this social circle .

The Basics: Social Dead Ends and Two Types of Connectors

Let’s begin with basics, the building blocks that will help with the more advanced Social Circle Mastery concepts. First, let’s define two terms or different types of people: ‘social dead ends’ and ‘connectors’. A social dead end is someone who adds no value to your life and generally brings you down – usually through things like negativity, inability to progress, or disinterest in evolving as a person. Many people who go through our exercises at the beginning of our Social Circle Mastery seminar recognize some of these behaviors in themselves. Human beings are imperfect.

A connector (our use of this term is inspired by Malcolm Gladwell in The Tipping Point , though obviously we’ve changed it to apply to dating science instead of to societal trends). There are actually a couple of different kinds of connector. A social connector is someone who has a particular and rare set of social skills. They belong in multiple social circles and introduce people to other people all the time.

A ‘value connector’ is a bit different. Such a person may be social – and is likely to be – but it doesn’t matter if s/he is a recluse. A value connector has access to scarce resources, where a social connector “only” has access to different social networks. A value connector may be a doorman or promoter who can get you into a hot venue. S/he might have access to parties, events, premieres, famous people, and so on. This gives you value as well, one step removed. Remember in Chapter 7 of Magic Bullets when Savoy goes through the eight qualities that are universally attractive to women, and how the book shows how can you demonstrate Status (one of the qualities) through your social circle as well as through yourself? That’s what we’re building off of here. Some people are both social connectors and value connectors.

Of course, we’re not talking about using people or a mercenary approach to friendship. Most connectors are interesting, positive and passionate people who inspire others around them. Surrounding yourself with high-value people will motivate you to make the best of your life as opposed to surrounding yourself with people whose own failings, insecurities and need to protect their ego justifies settling for the familiar and the routine. To paraphrase Napoleon Hill in his book Think and Grow Rich , when you hang around people who are excellent, you become excellent yourself.

Anyway, remember social dead ends and the two types of connectors. These will be very important in the next Social Circle Mastery articles.

The Structure of Your Social Life: the power of fifteen

Most people’s social lives can be mapped to a series of concentric circles. There is an innermost “core” of one or two close friends. Then comes an inner core of another 3-5 people and an outer core of another 5-15 people. These aren’t arbitrary numbers – this is how the human mind subconsciously qualifies social relationships. Doing both the academic and the real-world research to come with that was a pain, but it’s an important concept. The people in these cores comprise of the people who most influence your life. It has been said that ‘you are the average of the 5 people that you hang around the most’. This is partially true, but it is more accurate to say that most people are influenced by up to 15 people at a time, as different relationships ebb and flow in intensity.

Managing your core is crucial. Your objective should be to fill your core as much as possible with connectors. They should bring value to you and you need to bring value to them.

This will have an immediate impact on your dating life, whether or not you go for 10s. One of the insights from Magic Bullets is that women will judge you based on your friends. This is true for one night stands (if you are around fun, cool people and are the life of the party, you are immediately more attractive) and even more for longer-term relationships, since most women are interested in the social life and opportunities that you bring her to. A lot of this “immediate effect” dimension builds off of the great interview that Savoy and The Don did on Advanced Winging (download it now on Seductioninfo – it’s one of the best interviews in the series and if you ever go out with a wingman , it will improve both of your results immediately).

Taking it one step further, your social network should not only be attractive to women, but also be a source of beautiful women into your life. This is something we cover in detail in the Social Circle Mastery seminars and will figure prominently in future articles.

On a more advanced level, when you are introduced through friends to other friends, your pre-existing alliances often determine your social value and your relative value to the person to which you are being introduced. Don’t go saying “I don’t want to play that game”. Beautiful women are hyper-conscious of social value .

The key principle about your core is to bring value to peoples’ lives and they will bring value to yours. Be a connector and have other connectors in your life. If all the slots in your top fifteen are filled with negative people who don’t offer value or exhibit forward momentum in their own lives, then you might need to reassess the role that they play in yours. You can have friends you like and care about who don’t help you meet your goals in life, but these should not be the only friends you have.

Your top three cores (the approximately 15 most present people in your life) determine your social success –in terms of (a) social status (b) life orientation and (c) at least some degree life success. You can’t expect to fill these spaces with people who can’t help you reach your goals and then complain that these goals are out of reach.

Social Trees

The last concept I want to define in this article is that of Social Trees. Everyone is part of a number of different social trees. Examples of where ‘social trees’ arise include your workplace, your school, the guys that you go out with, your yoga class etc. Social trees are relative in value to you and to each other. For example, having a high position on a certain low value social tree (e.g. the leader of two geeky guys who each have no friends) is not as socially valuable as having a low position on a high-value social tree (e.g., the celebrity hanger-on who occasionally gets to sleep with beautiful fans). That being said, it is always advisable to be amongst the top of one tree. One practical use of this is on dates, which we often plan so that she can see you in a social environment in which you’re up at the top of the social tree (e.g., you’re throwing a party, so you invite her to come with you). You shouldn’t have to re-read Magic Bullets to know how powerful an effect that social status has on women.

Understanding trees is understanding social dynamics, and our techniques for “tree climbing” (becoming the alpha mate of trees), “tree jumping” (how to switch trees) and merging trees are part of the magic of Social Circle Mastery and we should touch on these in future articles.

Hi Guys,

I was just putting down some thoughts on the important skill of leading.

An important distinction: by leading, we do not mean the leader of a big company, such as Richard Branson; although he well may be a major player. (Somehow I doubt it ) In this context, we mean someone who leads an interaction.

Badboy taught me that women are like stones; he was making the point that they don’t do a great deal. That’s not to say they aren’t amazing in every way; it’s just that their role in the initial courtship process is not as involved as ours.

Women have to fulfil 3 simple roles:

1) They make themselves look good.
2) They expose themselves (not flash their racks ), in coffee shops, bars and clubs.
AND
3) They demonstrate interest. (show IOIs).

Men that can lead are very attractive to women. Why?

• Leading is a masculine trait. Whatever they may tell you, women like men who take decisions, keep them safe and lead the interaction.
• Leading demonstrates confidence.
• Leading demonstrates dominance.

The better your game, the more you will lead and the less the woman will do; the more comfortable she will feel in her role as a woman. You must look to lead throughout the entire interaction; this is both physically as well as verbally.

Physical Leading

Remember: “women are like stones,” and you therefore have to move them around.

For all the reasons listed above, physically leading a girl can create powerful attraction within girls.

Example:
You are talking to a girl in a bar and you want to lead her somewhere:

BG: Come on, let’s go get a drink at the bar.

You take her hand and then walk towards the bar. Don’t look back; it’s needy and you must be committed to the move. You must be “gently dominant.” Gently but firmly lead the girl and she will come. DO NOT use force as it will be met with resistance. Physical leading should be very smooth. Resist the temptation to rip, tug or grab her or more often than not, she will pull back against you.

A few tips:
Always have a reason to move the girl.
When you start to lead her away, keep talking as if it’s the most natural thing in the world. This will occupy her logical brain and will reduce the chance of her resisting being led.

Physical leading is great for isolating girls.

When you are standing in a group of people, you say to the group:

BG: I am just going to take Chrissy for a quick shot of Sambuca… we’ll be back in a few minutes.

Take her by the hand, and lead her away smoothly and keep talking.

It is also very useful to lead the girl a number of times around the club. Firstly, you will be able to practice your leading and secondly, the more you lead, the more she will become attracted to you.

Touching in the club:
This is another variation on physical leading. We all know how important it is to touch girls in clubs and bars. “Kino is king.” It is very important that you learn how to put your hands on a woman in a bar or club without invoking negative responses.

Touch a girl in the right way and she will be receptive to your touch. Touch her in the wrong way and things can go badly wrong!! Touching should never be forceful or aggressive. It is very difficult to describe in words, but I will try.

It should be gentle and smooth, but with a touch of dominance. She should always be able to pull away if she wants, but you should also be able to guide her where you want. If you put your arm out to stop a girl walking by, make sure there is some give in your arm. If there isn’t, she will interpret like you are trying to grab her like the other AFCs in the venue and she will act accordingly (What happens to most AFCs?)

When you pull a girl in close, ensure that you are doing so in a smooth, gentle but dominant way. I call it “weak hands;” it’s like “gentle dominance”. You know what you want and you move to get it, but you don’t just grab at it. Remember, smooth and assured touching will be rewarded with compliance and attraction. Force will be met with resistance. I know which one I want.

Don’t physically lead for the sake of it. I have visions of guys who have read this leading girls unnecessarily around the bar, wondering why it’s not working. Well guys, it’s not working because it is weird. If you don’t need to move her anywhere, don’t bother. Just be mindful of the fact that if an opportunity arises, you know what to do.

Leading the interaction:
As well as leading a girl physically, we must also remember to lead the interaction. I rarely let a girl take a decision that I could have taken myself.

This is not a definitive rule, but more of a guideline; in general, we must lead the interaction more than her.

Eg1:
Her – Where are we going?
BG – I don’t know… what would you like to do?
This is WEAK.

Eg2:
Her – Where are we going?
BG – We are going to bar X…
This is STRONG.

If there is a problem with the decision you take then you will see this in her body language or she will let you know verbally and you can deal with it. In these situations, her body will tell you whether she is actually happy or not and that will let you know whether to push on or reconsider.

Lead the interaction, lead the conversation topics, lead her physically; you are a man, so behave like one.

I know it sounds ridiculously simple, and it is, but some guys get caught up in the trap of thinking that they must do exactly what the girl wants the entire time; in actual fact, this is probably killing the attraction inside her.

Again guys, apply these principles with some common sense. I am merely advocating that when a decision is there to be taken, more often than not, you should take that decision. BUT… the world will not end if you don’t. Be cool. All girls are different and in some situations, it is nice to find out what a girl would like to do and then do that for her. As long as you are leading more than her, then you are doing OK; and the more you practice leading, the more natural it will be. You will become calibrated.

Interesting Observation: You will find that when you get good at this skill, you will also start to lead the men. It will be a totally unconscious phenomena, but a sure sign that you are improving. When a girl sees you leading men, what does she feel? I’ll leave this with you.

IMPORTANT
Remember guys; the goal is to learn this skill so you don’t even have to think about it. I was taught leading and I saw how powerful it was, so I started consciously doing it, which is fine, but sub-optimal. After about a month, I started to lead subconsciously; it’s something that just happens naturally – this, my friends, is optimal.

Hope this helps.

Peace and love,
Baby Girl xxx