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What about looks?

Looks don’t hurt your chances but they are far from the deciding factor. The most popular guy in your school was he the best looking or the most confident? Usually the most popular guy in school is just more confident or funny.

Men and women are biologically wired to desire different things. Men look at a woman’s replication value, so her hips to breast ratio, facial symmetry, height, hair, lips, breast and bum size. Women look at the man’s survival value, confidence, humour and positivity being the top three.

A man who is good looking might get some freebies. For example some girls might approach him or give him signals that they are interested to be approached.

Social conditioning teaches women that they should go for a certain type of man but this type of man isn’t what they respond to. A very shallow, un-evolved, socially conditioned woman might be primarily focus on a man’s looks. Woman like this are rare though, especially attractive women. A more attractive woman will have gone on dates and generally have better self-esteem than a girl that is typically not as attractive. There are probably many counter examples but on average this is true.

Women will go on dates with good looking guys and be very disappointment. The guy is typically shy, acts strange, immature, unsure of himself. Some girls will understand that looks aren’t important for them while others take a bit of time to put the pieces of the puzzle together. “So I went on that date with that guy I should fancy but didn’t yet that normal man who made me laugh and made me feel all those emotions I slept with.”

Another factor with looks is that if your social skills, confidence or humour is just one percent better than your friend who is ultra good looking then you will get the girl. I have had many good looking students, a few male models come on bootcamp. I’m balding with a regular body and they could look like Brad Pitt out of Fight Club yet if I’m just one percent better I end up getting the girl.

What a woman is ultimately looking at is if you feel entitled to be with her. If you are good looking then getting lots of girls checking you out in the nightclub will increase your feeling of being entitled. This is a good thing but will lead to the good looking man fearing the approach and rejection. He has a lot to lose because the girl has put him up on the pedal stool and if he is not cool she will be disappointed. It is also completely unnecessary.

I have one friend called Chris who is very good looking with strong facial features. He studied Software Engineering with me and is a good friend to this day. Chris generally lacks confidence, a bit geeky and can be shy in social situations. He’s much better now, however I lost count on the number of times girls would come up to him in a club. They’d say hi or that they liked him at least once per night. Yet every time he would seem to be able to de-attract the woman. This is a guy who has looks that could grace the cover of a fashion magazine. Yet he only had sex three times over the course of his three years at University. He is not religious and he didn’t have a girlfriend.

Now my house mate Ash was and is a full on geek. He owns every games console ever created. Think Sega Saturn to Dreamcast, he owns them all. He has phrases like “It’s on like Donkey Kong” and “Locked and Loaded”. Above his bed he has a massive customized Ms Pac man poster. If there was an island of geeks then he would be The Great Geeker. He isn’t great looking although he thinks that he is, in fact he is balding, skinny and pale looking.

Now Ash wasn’t perfect, he had ego and a strong need to feel loved. However this geeky guy would regularly go out and pick up girls. Ash was my main wing back at University and someone I learnt a lot from. He completely accepted his geekiness and just loves video games.

One of Ash’s favourite things to do was to bring a girl back to his room, have sex with her in the dark and then turn the lights on afterwards to reveal his games consoles and posters and proudly shout “You’ve just had sex with a nerd!”. I can imagine the poor girl thinking, “oh my god what have I done, I had sex with you? You suck!”

Ash didn’t have looks but he did have confidence, humour and was generally a positive guy. A man’s looks are such a passive thing for a woman that they are basically irrelevant. Make sure you are shaved, clean and wear decent clothes and that will be enough for you to date women with unlimited beauty.

Best,

Rob

* FOLLOW MY STRATEGY AND YOUR NIGHT WILL NEVER AGAIN TURN INTO ANY OF THESE THREE THINGS… SLOW, ARDUOUS OR GRUELLING!

* Understand that you are a creature of HABIT. What you did before you will do again. Break your old “VIEWING, REACTIVE, SPECTATOR – MODE PATTERN”. Just get out there and fucking make shit happen! Create a new pattern!

I have better and better nights because I follow THIS pattern…

Entering the Venue:

* Start out with a warm up set. This is huge. Build momentum. But don’t worry about it… just BE. If you’re constantly questioning yourself as to whether you are in the zone or not, the ‘zone’ will constantly elude you. Let state come from within. You will give “less of a fuck” as the night goes on and the momentum will take care of itself. Don’t give a fuck about giving less of a fuck! Speak to your first group within 3 seconds of walking into the venue… NO HESITATION… AND IT DOESN’T EVEN MATTER WHO YOU TALK TO! What’s more, any lame ass line will do… that doesn’t matter either. You just need to start breaking those old spectator mode habits such as walking around the venue to “see if there are hot girls there”. You can start the first few interactions by simply asking ” hey what time does this place shut” or “what time does it get busy” or “Hey what’s the occasion.” COMPLETELY LAME right? Maybe, but you just need that momentum… remember!And no running straight to the bar to buy a drink before you “check out the venue”. What do you want to be a spectator or a creator? The longer you leave it, the longer you’re the spectator, the more you start listening to that little bastard voice in the head. When I’m in a busy club I walk round saying random shit to everyone. That’s EVERYONE. I don’t care. Complete self amusement… I’m having a LOT of fun.

* Fuck that voice!! The smaller the time in between different groups of people, the less in your head you will be!

* Momentum truly is a wonderful thing!

* A little side note regarding alcohol… If a women senses you are confident because you are slightly tipsy then if makes it a lot harder for her to build attraction for you. Don’t hide behind ALCOHOL… don’t be one of THOSE guys who tell their friends “I’M OKAY ONCE I’VE HAD A DRINK.” Replace alcohol with momentum.It won’t take long before you start taking bigger risks. The more you practice, the more you start to say things that are completely congruent with who you are instead of those bullshit LAME ASS openers that you don’t give a shit about the answers to. You start going more direct. You start getting more physical… more SEXUAL. As a side note: If you’re in one venue for the night you have a choice… Build the momentum gradually or designate an “obliteration venue” wherein you give yourself a time limit. Around ten minutes maybe. Bust in and speak to EVERYONE within that time. Be completely outcome free. You can start off lame, but you want to get more and more direct.

* What I mean when I say direct is be more “Authentic” and “Congruent”.

* I work in a bar on most Friday nights where I constantly get to flirt with hot women. One night I finished early but the momentum stayed with me and as I was walking home I made a very direct approach on a VERY tall and beautiful blonde lady I observed through the window as I walked past a late night bar. Direct walk up… Hold eye contact. I took her away from all the guys she was with and bought her a drink. Yeah that’s right guys… I bought her a drink! And then I took her home and did naughty things to her!! Not one of her friends stopped her. Pure confidence!! And I tell you now, if that was the first girl I’d spoken to that night there would have been no way I would of gone in hard as I did. The momentum had gathered me up to a peak!

* Entering the Venue Part II:
* So now we have the foundations – the way you should be approaching a night out and the importance of momentum – I want to talk about the interactions themselves…
* As you build up your flow you will start to have more interactions, more conversations. You will start taking bigger “risks”.
* I don’t really care what she says for the first couple of minutes as she has her “club shield up”. It can be brought down with either high energy of low energy absurdity.
* The randomness of the night makes the fun factor kick in, but I’m still going to shoot to kill. I normally buzz around the club either in high energy mode or low energy mode. Both, however, have the overall goal of going out TO GET LAID… either that night or at a later date.
* I don’t stay in one mode or the other, but I’m definitely in low energy mode for the larger percentage of the night. I used to be a complete nut case and just run around being a clown and I still enjoy adding in some of this stuff. But it’s all about balance. I find balance at a ratio of 80/20 (low to high).

High Energy Mode:

High fives!

Say Cheers (while touching glasses).

Scream WHOOOO! (and scream it with your hands up in the air while standing in the middle of a large group).

You can even walk up singing the song that’s playing or even just mime it! Just hold eye contact no matter what is playing.

Use ‘QUIRKY’ openers. Get your wing to choose them for you. Some of my recent ones include:

“Hi… I’m Brad Pit”

“Who lies more? Turtles or dolphins…

And the classic ‘Thundercats’ opener.. SNNNAAAAAARRRRFFFF!!! Hoooooooo!!

Think of your own though, don’t just use these. It really doesn’t matter what it is. The Funnier YOU find it the better. YOU are outcome free, remember…

So dance like you’re mental. Pump your fists in air, make your face expressive. Go down on one knee. Anything… in a pure “I don’t give a shit style’. Dance like a chicken even. PURE SELF AMUSEMENT ! “Being the party” is very important. But be it for you, without looking for a specific reaction. Draw state from within. Don’t let your state be dictated by external forces.

Soon you’ll be amusing yourself while going for instant make outs on the dancefloor – then it’s kiss closing in bathrooms… and even LOVE MAKING IN THE LAV!!

Low Energy Mode:

This is my foundation or default state when I’m in club! I go into low energy mode when I feel I’ve reached the HOOK POINT. Once there I can go into LOW ENERGY mode and leave the girl to invest the greater energy into the interaction. It’s simple… resting purely on the subtleties of that inner smile.

I’m engaging in the purest form with the person I’m talking to.

I’m doing everything other than trying.

I’m pure congruency. I’m not trying and not even trying not to try.

I’m simply PRESENT, yet my momentum is propelling me forwards.

I’m taking up a lot of space.

My body movements are smooth.

* I’m not needy. I’m not checking out the women or anything else for that matter… if a glass smashes… no big deal. A fight breaks out…no big deal. I probably wouldn’t even notice! It’s pure presence in motion and there’s no looking to the environment for cues… I’m demonstrating complete internal validation.

Comparing The Two:

* I find that it’s balls on the line in high energy state… that’s where I’m making shit happen. BUT, low energy state is where I’m getting the opportunities to speak to the women I really like the look of. I build a lot of value up from high energy state… because I’m the party. I stand out immeasurably from all the losers who are just stood there observing and CHECKING OUT the hot girls … trying to build up enough courage to go and actually speak to one of them. And then I’m just chill and the fluctuation between these two modes is dynamite. I find that after only 15 minutes in a venue a lot of women are already making it really easy for us to open them. They’re leaning against walls and making subtle eye contact. Or they’re brushing past and standing right next to us. Sometimes they’re so close that my body can’t help but be touching theirs.
* It’s purely from the vibe we give off… and this is where I start picking off the hotties!
* I realise that the dynamics of interactions, at the start, can be hard to crack so I’ve come up with some classic stuff that gets the conversation easily flowing. If you did everything above properly then you won’t need to “worry” about silence or what to say next. What’s your opener? Like I said before… IT’S NO BIG DEAL!
* Say “Hey what’cha looking at girl! (do it with a cheeky smile that grins from inside out)
* Say “You guys look like you are from (insert random country here! But make it something random and fun like North or South Kenya, Korea or even Wales!)
* Say “I bet you guys live together…”
* Ask them who the boss is?
* Tell her you bet she’s a little trouble maker!
* Or maybe just ask her to introduce you to her friend (but say it with that same cheeky smile)

All of the above can be used both as openers and follow through statements.

* Mindset:
* The beginning is the real test to all interactions. Stay in there, stay calm. Remember, If you get lots and lots of resistance go through the above sections and see where you may have made your mistakes. Just don’t expect no resistance at all… it’s a bi-product of the situation. Women have shield they use to defend themselves against random guys who approach them in bars (I’ll tell you how to disarm them later). But when I’m interacting with her, I’m thinking she’s just my bratty little girl… my source of entertainment.
* I’m metaphorically asking her “Are you going to let your social conditioning stop you from having a great time with a guy like me?
* I’m telling her “Don’t mess up young lady…”
* I’m NOT thinking “Is this working?”
* I’m NOT thinking “Does she think I’m weird?”
* I’m NOT thinking “Does she like me?” or “what technique or line shall I say now that will make her like me?”
* I see the interaction as pure self amusement. I don’t take it serious. She tells me to fuck off… it’s literally funny to me and as a result she tells me I’m attractive. But either reaction is the same. Outside sources do not affect my self worth or my self esteem. I choose my state not her. YES… EVEN IF SHE TELLS ME IM HOT… I really don’t care what she thinks.
* I have no reason to be there other than my own selfish desires.
* I can just walk off whenever I want.
* I can say whatever I want.
* And I never react to what they say until I have equal investment in the interaction.
* I’m like the white pool ball. Constantly throwing shit at them. Breaking them down and ploughing through until I get those AFC questions….What’s your name?”, “Where you from?
* Yeah, I give it back. I reward the effort… I don’t then go “ha got you!” to myself and pretend to be smooth. I just stay congruent and unaffected by the situation!
* I definitely don’t try to act cool and make them work harder at first… because they won’t! Like the guy I ask “where are you from” who replies “Guess”…It’s too cocky too early and I’m just left thinking “TWAT!” Unless it’s done with charm and cheeky chappie smile its not a good idea to have her work too hard…… at first.
* Then I just vibe…. I talk about random shit….. I am completely myself. I speak honestly and when she asks me what brought me out tonight I tell her honestly too “I’M OUT TO MEET COOL GIRLS”

I DON’T TRY TO PROVE TO HOT WOMEN THAT I HAVE VALUE… I JUST ASSUME IT!

* And as the interaction goes on suddenly you find yourself in a conversation where the initial social awkwardness has been removed and now you’re both vibing…

The difference is that she is reacting to me… and not the other way around.

Feel free to message me with any questions

Hey Bro,

Here is a bit of background of how I got into game.

Part 1 Age 9 to 17 years

These a point to this whole story (somewhere lol)….

Most people ask me on seminars/bootcamps and 1on1’s were you always this good with women, here’s your answer.

Really I don’t consider myself ginger not anymore, that person isn’t dead but merged with a higher being an evolved Rob/Beckster. Some might say altar ego. Cool

It was fine at primary school St John’s I even had a girl friend and a few snogs and the girl next door (well 2 doors away) was my girl friend to, she even came to me with her friend and said can we both go out with you, I was 9 or 10 at the time. She even lock me in her room smoke cigs and said if I didn’t kiss her she would say it was me.

I was definitely a natural them days, I even was thinking of routines to pull girls then.
So no issues with my hair colour then.

Secondary came Sheen school, yes you guessed it so did the names and bullying a lot of my friends went to other schools, I always stuck up for myself or ignored people that hassled me but it did dent my confidence by probably 90% which is a hell of a lot I was now an total AFC.
I had one girl friend through this time and not for long and it was at 13.
I fancied a girl at school who I hardly ever spoke to (now I know her very well but that’s for later maybe).

I went to Richmond college with a new attitude in life and I didn’t know anyone in my class and not many in my college.

I changed my hair style to curtains it was either that or a skin head (wish I’d gone for the skin head now).

One girl knew me called Candy ran over to me and we chatted that never happened in secondary school. We made friends other the holidays and she was friends with my buddy Spanners. She noticed my new hair it gave me a boast of confidence.

In my class I just tried being alpha and funny and ended up the main guy in the class, which wasn’t hard as there were no cool people in it.
I ended up pulling one girl in the class who had a major crush on my, not the best looker but best in the class.

The year ended I was 17 and I had grown in confidence but this next year was filled with all knew people and they were cool, I still had red hair but I had put a few blond highlights in it. Also some guys and girls acted like the alphas and bullies in my secondary school.
I stuck to my guns and held the frame of the leader like the year before, people still laughed at my jokes but also tested me, but as an equal this time. No one tried to bully me and no one mentioned my red hair but my mate I had made there.

He was Filipino called Jay and rolled with some could be dangerous very high alpha people.
Meeting them was very hard specially cos I was the only white boy. Jay and I also rolled with another guy and his posse, again I was the only white kid and these guys were also HARD. In both groups there were the guys that liked me and those that ignored me and a few they didn’t really want me around and tried to shit test me, but never about my hair. No one would hassle me about my hair even a few guys from my secondary school that use to.

Also I grow 7 inches over this period which made me 6 foot yes I was small at school too and skinny and pale.
I now walked with confidence and started buy semi decent clothes.

I slowly lightened my hair bit by bit to make it look natural not just a over night change. I also started putting some fake tan on not loads just like summer glow cream. I styled my hair like Leonardo DiCaprio in Romeo + Juliet (1996) and made my eyebrows a little darker, I copied his face expressions and mannerism. http://bahcecikdevekusu.com/caprio/romeo/

I was even confident enough to go for a job interview remember I was super unconfident not long ago.

In a cinema there are 1000’s of sets a day and I was soon to meet someone very influential to my life who will also introduce me to Speed seduction. Cool

Age 18 to 20

So I was going out to Kingston wear baggy white shitty shirts and black trousers shinny buckle shoes and a crap hair style

I had spots and didn’t have confidence yet to speak to women

I went to Kingston a lot as I had a few friends around there also pubs in Putney were I worked. I could talk to the girls from work and very quickly learned to tease them and neg them.

Though in the course of a year and a half I deflowered 1 girl and snogged and messed around in bed with another. Also the girl I slept with friend use to visit and I snogged her she wanted to be my GF but I left it, then later she went back with her old BF so I shamelessly stole her back then called it off again. Now why was I doing this as I couldn’t ever get girls. Well the reason is that I’d been studying Speed seduction.

So I’m just 19 and I go to the pub with my mate and his dad, I meet his dad’s mates who are older then me by 7, 8, and 10 years

One guy Mathew was 6,10 feet tall and built, fuck peacocking everyone knew he was about.

Then the Justin he was the older of the bunch 6,2 healthy and smiley, clever guy

Then there was Blade, suit jacket and bottoms, tight white t-shirt, long dark straightened hair, New Rock boots making him about 6,2

He leaned on an umbrella which he sometimes span around and pointed with and used as a prop. I have always been able to sum people up really well and I knew this guy had a secret, he was very charming and friendly, good body language and spoke softly but clearly. He had an outrageous laugh which made you laugh, he didn’t drink hardly ever smoked and trained a lot as he was well build, he looked a bit like Antonio Bandreas.

We all got on really well and I was the cheeky young chappy of the group, Blade soon became a really good friend as did the others. He started taking me to the westend were he would stop girls in the street and have then shut there eyes and go on a journey with him, or a roller coaster ride or talk about objects in shop or coffee shops. It was all so wonderful and interesting to me, I had to have in!!! Shocked

So Blade told me there was this Guru out there called Ross J and he taught guys to meet chicks in the streets and coffee shops and stores

So I tried in the Cinema at work and got a gorgeous Swedish girls to go on a date with me, she still remains one of the best looking girls I have been with we had a few dates till she went back to Sweden, but I did mess up our first date by wearing too much aftershave she sneezed all the way through the film Tongue

I use to read all Ross’s newsletters waiting eagerly for the new one to come out also had his tapes (no CD’s then) and Ross had his little book out then too, which I still have

My first ever opener which I used all the time was “has anyone ever told you you’re a shining example of genetic perfection”? I told Ross this a few weeks ago in X’s flat and he laughed and said sorry for that, I replied “why it got me laid so much and still does”. Then I told him my SS line, he loved it Grin

Anyway back to the story, so I still had no clue about club game Ross’s stuff was for day game. In Kingston for the 1yr I had been going I only ever got one snog on the dance floor.
So I thought its time to start perfecting my own art of seduction…..

Beckster

I have had to turn situations around like this many a time I started the game when I was 19 and looked about 16 and that was 10yrs ago (look I’ve just gave my age up) and the tests still come but now its both ways

When I was 19 I met alot of older women and some of them loved it and some of them don’t realise they love it

Your job is to make them want it, you

Ones I have used and advised people to use are, text her something along the lines of “hay I feel like a DVD night lets go to the store and rent a adult (not porn) film and see if I can understand it but can you drop me home before 9pm as it my bed time Wink (put smiley), I’ll pick the wine” p.s your a bit young for me I normally go for women in there late 20’s but I will make and acception for u as your nose wiggles when you smile”

Also if a women I think might have issues with age I use:

HB: How old are you?

Me: To old for you?

HB: No your not?

Me: You couldn’t handle me, we’d like different things your still learning.

HB: My last boyfriend was 27/32/38yrs

Me: Ok guess my age?

HB: (Normally guesses younger) 23/24yrs

Me: Wow I like you, lets chat about this over there, put your hand on here (point to arm) thats it, all posh like the movies, now we walk like this (perade her around until situable location found).

HB: So how old are you?

Me: Why are you working for pensions sales Wink

HB: haha, really tell me.

Me: Give me a kiss and I will it loosens my lips you see but before you do if you can guess my age after the kiss I’ll get you a drink.

HB: Ok deal (they never guess, turn this into a snog also remember lots of kino in the right places)

Also if you Kino older women in the right places you will be 50% or more on your way as older women can sense a men who knows what he is doing

sorry for the long windedness of it, it just I used this on my holiday I just came back from on a young chick.

Hope this help some what buddy

Beckter

8 SECOND #CLOSE

After finishing boot camp about 7 or 8 months ago I was walking home and saw a girl wearing a hoodie, sitting on the wall waiting for a bus.

The 8 second #close went like this.

Walked pasted stop did a quick double take and one step back. (She looked up)
Forced IOI with my point and hide face with hand routine. (she smiled)
Walked straight up hands held out CHEEKY SMILE Wink She took my hands.

“Hay take your hoodie off” (she did), said “that’s better” (as I span her) Cheesy
“Gotta catch my bus, I’m having a fancy dress party gimme your number I’ll text ya”
Her: Ok giggles (giggles are good it means they trust you and there happy and fancy you, I’m always happy when my women are giggling, (as I typed 07 into it and handed it to her). Then looked away like it was no big deal. NOTE OF INTEREST: this is important as if they look up and your grinning like a twat then they are likely just to say email me instead or actually I better not.

I shouted later Miss Red Riding hood as left with another point and cheeky smile as I walked away, this is important as it’s like sealing the deal but super quick.
Why I hear you ask and still wasn’t the sealing the deal to quick.

If you chat to a HB for 3 hours then number close then go straight after that, she will most likely flake. But if you stay inset for another 20mins to show all the trust, comfort and connection you have built up is chicken soup = kosher, then she won’t flake.

Now if the interaction is under 30 seconds and you piss off immediately after getting the number then she will still flake.

So you need to so a mini something at the end to show you just wasn’t after the number, now in my case I did a point and smile which is what sparked her interest at the beginning. Even though I was walking away at the time this was ok as at the time I was walking to her. It’s sort of like a trigger or anchor.

Also as it was a super quick #number close I could do a super quick exit.

I never had a party and just texted my text routines she came over to mine the next night and f-close totally time in her company from start to finish 20ish mins.

So now when women say they can tell if they like a man in the first few seconds you know that there still lots of time to do things in that time frame Cheesy Cool

Beckster

Word Up,

I was using boob kino about 8yrs ago while watching and extremely drunk guy who was not aware of was bumping into the girl while he swade back and forth and left and right push his hand which clasped a drink into her large breasts. I thought what a drunken fool, until i saw that she start to reciprocate buy pushing her breasts out more and even pushing them back into him

Soon they left with him leading her out and she was at a highly sexual state (leading another amazing powerful tool, which i love to talk about), so I decided to test it and the keys are:

Not looking where you are touching
Do not linger
Hardly even touch sometimes you won’t even need to if your 2mm away she can still feel it and her subconscious definitely can

Signs to watch for:Micro IOI’s (Things I personally look for)

Erect nipples
Flushed cheeks, face, chest
Shaking drink, ripples in drink from shaking e.g nervous sexual excitement / tension
Pupils dilate

Standard IOI’s:

Pushing their boobs into you (which they do from time to time anyway if you’ve ever noticed)
Looking down at their breasts (and smiling, normally)
Grabbing your wrist with drink in it and gently pulling it forward (they get carried away)

A few tactics I will share with you on it:

Misdirection move 1: Point to and mention something interesting as you hold your drink in front of you and pivot (turn into) her

Backhand maneuver: Turn sideways as if looking for someone or coughing or waving, step leg closest to her inwards to the middle of her leg nearly and then just turn back to speak to her but this time you are close and you will stoke her boobs, very innocently Always good to root it!

Fluff/lint picking: Just pick off of breast, repeat later on other breast, follow up at time with comments to make it less weird e.

“Your molting you minx, I need a new rug by my fire place, do you like roasted marshmallows”

“Is this the new just got out of bed look” (wink at her)

Do you own cat (move away pull a face), HB “No” You: cool (move into her again with a above boob kino move. Or HB: Yes I do, You: Ok then I’ll have to go home to get my cat fever pills first, you wouldn’t want me sneezing on your pussy would you
etc etc etc

Why if’s:
she looks down as if you say stop touching my boobs:

Flick up her nose/chin “got ya

Mention out loud half joking “STOP PUTTING YOUR BREASTS ON MY, I DON’T KNOW YOU WELL ENOUGH YET”, (then quieter pulling into her breast again) I need trust, comfort and a connection before we go there and we only have lust at the moment is that really enough”

She says your touch my breast:

“Well you keep looking at my crouch, (she looks down) you did it again

Or sorry I thought you gave me the boob sign HB: What? HB: “You know when you look down at your breasts” (she does it again then you say) “see you did it again”, my friend candy told me it was true, not my fault”

There are more styles and techniques but once you get good at them let me know

Remember the back of the hand is non sexual so you will get away with it more test it, put your hand on a girls leg palm up and then palm down she which one is more sexual.

I WILL LEAVE YOU ON A SAYING THAT THE SAS AND A PAIR OF DOWN AND OUT BROTHERS THAT NEVER GIVE IN AND WIN AT THE END:

Who dares wins (Rodney) who dares wins

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Beckster

Hey man,

This is a quick easy one I came up with lately and have been using it to full effect.

Its low risk sexual from the start and fun.
It taps into what girls like and also puts sexy imagines up in their heads.
Its rapport break, qualification, sexual escalation both verbal & kino.

What’s better, good shoes or good sex?

# Why
The reason this routine works is because it smoothly gets the subject onto good sex.

# How to
Good to use as statement/routine roughly 2-20 min into conversation.
You: What’s better, good shoes or good sex?

Scenario 1
Target: Both at the same time?
You: That’s greedy, (pause) and perfect. (Give her hug)

Scenario 2
Target: (She will answer shoes or sex)
You: How about good sex (point to self) wearing good shoes?
Her: Well yes! (or something to that effect)
You: That’s greedy, (pause) and perfect. (Give her hug)

These two scenarios seem the same yet have subtle differences. Like the second scenario I had to hint about having good sex combined with good shoes, first scenario she hinted it, hence first scenario is more of an IOI.

Then follow up with my open toe, closed toe routine, cold read while kino’ing her feet and hint also, “good shoes indicate good taste in underwear”, don’t you think?”
She won’t have had her feet touched that night and i know some women don’t like it but it will be in a way they won’t mind. Also if shes sitting done after this pull her leg up and put it on your lap and say “I need a closer inspection of these killer shoes”

Then your pretty much sorted and ready to bounce her somewhere.

BTW if you want a little opener to go with this routine then I use this:

I walk up shoulder foot and a half apart and point down at their shoes, as they look down I say “I can’t believe your wearing them shoes in this place!”
or “I can’t believe your wearing them shoes in this weather!”
Trail your hand up her leg to crotch slowly until you get to her belly button, she may giggle when you reach this point as your accessing a tickle area or a chakra area for the spiritual people out there Also passing by the erogenous zone & chakra. Feel free to stop there too if feeling brave I tend to sometimes too.

Then she might say some along the lines of “why”?
You: its brave and I’m glad you didn’t, it made me wanna say hi! So hi god damn it Wink

It’s been emotional,

Beckster

I was in the airport doing my usual pick up artist stuff, I love airports for sarging meeting so many people who have time on their hands while waiting for their flight. I checked in with 30 seconds to spare then found out that my plane had been delayed due to the weather/rain I was with my client so we decided go sarging.

A good one is to try on 2 aftershaves (think this is Mystery’s routine) and ask options about it I have a slightly different version were they kiss each waist.

So we passed by a store and low and behold I saw

Who is one of my top sexiest women, I give my digi-cam to my client and said film this. It was like a time stopping bomb had hit the aiport, there was a big 5m creator around her and everyone was deadly silent apart from a few whispers.

Even though she is Swedish she had a big loud American ancient and she stood 6.4 in heels, wearing big black Hollywood sunglasses Cool and big blond hair. I have never seen someone with such presence. Only a few shop attendance were talking to her, which made it harder for me to go straight in.

She change shops, again a mass followed and whispered, again the shop attendants helped her. She brought load of perfumes etc.

I turned away from her and looked for something to see behind me, I found something better then a mirror cos she would have maybe saw that I could see her coming. I found a black Perspex shelf where I could see behind me and she couldn’t see me looking. I also made sure it would be in the path she would walk out of the shop.

I saw her coming she was in a hurry as are all famous people, I turn kino’ed looked up she was taller then me by 2 and a half inches, it was the rush of fear and excitement I have lost and longed for for years now. I know most of you hate it and think it’s a curse but its the fuel that keeps me going in set that’s why I had to develop a way to pull in 2-20mins.

So the feeling of a goddess and women I have always fancied big time and the audience of Heathrow terminal 1 around me I began.

Me: You know you can totally help me out here (pause quickly continue without permission)…now I have 2 lovely (point to self) smells on my waists (point to waist then other waist) I stood standing side ways ish and she walk back.

Me: I would like to know which one is most excitable?Huh (raise eyebrow)
(It was hard to judge her as well as I’d like as she had sun glasses on).
I could have heard a pin drop in the place, it seemed like all the men in Heathrow were holding there breathe.

Little giggle Cheesy
SHB = (Superhotbabe)
SHBceleb: Ok.

Now in her Swedish ancient, to me if a women giggles Cheesy (not to be confused with laughs she is totally happy in your company) also she is comfortable to stop her American twang.

She garbs arm and smells one then the another at a normal speed then again the first,

SHBceleb: This one is too sweet and feminine the other is masculine. Is it for your girl friend? (ello, hold tight sweetie I need trust, comfort and connection before we go there and all we have is lust. No I didn’t say this but I should have plus she is married).
I don’t answer her question.

Me: So the masculine one is best for me then?
SHBceleb: Yes nodding.
Me: tacks-mucka (can’t spell it) means thank you very much in Swedish.
SHBceleb: giggles again reply your welcome in Swedish and then something else which I couldn’t translate.

We wave bye to each other. She looks back once more when she is 6ish meters away.
I walk towards my client and on the way some guy shouts out you should have ask this man advice on perfume and points for the shop worker, I put my hand on his shoulder and said that would defeat the purpose now wouldn’t it, people laugh I walk and feel like Bruce Willis walking out the space shuttle in Armageddon. Cool

Got to my client he said I messed up the camera turned its self off doh!!!

I learn’t a lot from sarging an A-list maybe B-list mixed with SHB’dome.
And lastnight I hung out with and shared a taxi and number close another B-list celeb and got pics, didn’t go in for coffee had LTR waiting for me, but will write that up Monday, off out now to Embrassy if anyones coming. Going with to extremely hot girl’s.

Beckster

PUA Wing Rules

You and your Wingman should be friends. Make sure you and your Wing have commonalities other than women. Find out what similar interests in music, sport or hobbies you have and hangout together outside of Game. Having cool friends in your life will raise your survival value dramatically when demonstrated in front of women.

When talking to women, big each other up rather than putting each other down. By putting your friends down you are sub-communicating to women that you have Low Value friends. People tend to hangout with other people with a similar value to their own. Ever dated a hot girl? You will notice that all her friends look very similar to the girl you are dating; almost clones. A girl’s value is based primarily on sexual replication, your value is based primarily on survival. She will presume your survival value is also low.

You want your friends to have value.

Never fight over a woman. Simple rule: whoever Approaches first can choose the girl he wants. There should be no excuses or deviations from this rule.
Use secret phrases to let your Wing know who your target is. For example, you could say “Watch out for this one – she’s trouble” – to let your Wing know this girl is your Target.

If you’re with your Wing, make sure you Escalate in Sync. This is often one of the main ways a Wing can wreck a good interaction. If one girl is a lot more giggly than the other one then the lower state girl will drag the other girl away. She will recognise that the high state girl is going to have sex and because she isn’t in that state of mind then she‘ll end the interaction. If both girls are in a similar state of arousal then this won’t happen. I’ve enabled this on several occasions with female friends. My wing has his target and I’m left with the other two girls. By escalating on them at the same pace I may even get a three-way Makeout, or at least separate kisses from both.

You want to isolate in a cool way. You don’t want your Wing picking up his girl and carrying her out of the venue. Your girl will immediately begin to freak out and look to see what is happening. This usually spells the end of the interaction as the other girl’s comfort levels have been exceeded. It’s not the girl who was picked up that has lost comfort but her friend. When in a group interaction you want to bear in mind everyone’s comfort levels as they can influence the outcome.

Escalate in isolation. It is usually best to escalate physically and verbally in isolation away from the group. This simple step removes having to deal with the friends’ comfort levels and makes your Wing’s job a lot easier.

If you are a lot more experienced than your Wing, then it is often good to let him go first and let him get the added bonus of being confident and spontaneous in the approach. You can then enter the conversation, talk to the other girl and isolate her away from your Wing as quickly as possible. That way both girls won’t end up talking to you and you can develop a connection with just one of them.

If you Wing has really bad Approach Anxiety then don’t try to push him to Approach. Just treat it as a solo night and bring him in when you need him and hangout with him after the interactions. Soon enough he will get bored and start to Approach for himself.

You want to have a similar energy level to your Wing, and that should be about the same level as the girls that you’re interested in. One of you having high energy and the other low usually ends up looking weird and like a terrible comic double act.

If a Wing enters your conversation and you don’t want him there, then tell him you’ll catch up with him in a bit. Then tell the girl that he’s some guy from work.

If a guy enters your conversation and you don’t know him or don’t really care, then ignore him and keep talking to the girls. If he tries to engage you then say “That’s cool, man ” and continue talking to the girls. He will get bored, walk off and your value will be raised.

A lot of these Wing rules take practice to develop. Until you find a good Wing it is usually good practice just to go out with guys and Open for yourself. When the Set is over, you have a social base to go back to.

Take responsibility for yourself to have a good night. If your Wing is not Approaching then take responsibility for doing this yourself.

Casual Number Close

Sometimes you just won’t have time to build a solid connection with the girl. In this case you want to Open, quickly Qualify on something light and then go for a casual Number Close. Although this may result in her giving you a flaky number, there is still some chance you will see her again. It is actually not a bad approach and taking this approach with ten girls might lead to three meeting up with you again.

Example One

You: I’m actually in a bit of a rush, I’m meeting my friends Katie and Sarah for coffee but I liked this conversation, you have a good energy about you. Enter your number and maybe we can go for a coffee sometime? I can only take it if it’s an English number though.

Her: Yes it’s a English number

PUA: Cool, 07.……….

What is happening hear is you are mentioning that you are off to meet a couple of female friends which shows you must be a cool guy. You false qualify her by saying that you like her energy, this becomes the reason to see each other again. Finally you say, I’ll only take your number if it’s an Englishg number. I have another nerdy word for you to learn, this is called a Distracter. She is agreeing it’s a UK number, but you presume she is agreeing to see you again so you then prompt her to enter her number.

Example Two

You: I’m actually in a bit of a rush, I’m meeting my friends Katie and Sarah for coffee but I liked this conversation, you seem interesting. I organise parties and the last one we had was a pub crawl of the Monopoly Board, it’s a lot of fun; lots of girls and cool guys get together. What’s your number and I’ll send you a text about when the next one is, you are welcome to bring friends.

Her: [enters number]

This is a very casual number close but very effective if you are looking to build your social circle. Saying she is welcome to bring friends will remove pressure that it will be an awkward date. If she turns up with a couple of female friends, awesome: you will be pre-selected for the whole night.