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What about looks?

Looks don’t hurt your chances but they are far from the deciding factor. The most popular guy in your school was he the best looking or the most confident? Usually the most popular guy in school is just more confident or funny.

Men and women are biologically wired to desire different things. Men look at a woman’s replication value, so her hips to breast ratio, facial symmetry, height, hair, lips, breast and bum size. Women look at the man’s survival value, confidence, humour and positivity being the top three.

A man who is good looking might get some freebies. For example some girls might approach him or give him signals that they are interested to be approached.

Social conditioning teaches women that they should go for a certain type of man but this type of man isn’t what they respond to. A very shallow, un-evolved, socially conditioned woman might be primarily focus on a man’s looks. Woman like this are rare though, especially attractive women. A more attractive woman will have gone on dates and generally have better self-esteem than a girl that is typically not as attractive. There are probably many counter examples but on average this is true.

Women will go on dates with good looking guys and be very disappointment. The guy is typically shy, acts strange, immature, unsure of himself. Some girls will understand that looks aren’t important for them while others take a bit of time to put the pieces of the puzzle together. “So I went on that date with that guy I should fancy but didn’t yet that normal man who made me laugh and made me feel all those emotions I slept with.”

Another factor with looks is that if your social skills, confidence or humour is just one percent better than your friend who is ultra good looking then you will get the girl. I have had many good looking students, a few male models come on bootcamp. I’m balding with a regular body and they could look like Brad Pitt out of Fight Club yet if I’m just one percent better I end up getting the girl.

What a woman is ultimately looking at is if you feel entitled to be with her. If you are good looking then getting lots of girls checking you out in the nightclub will increase your feeling of being entitled. This is a good thing but will lead to the good looking man fearing the approach and rejection. He has a lot to lose because the girl has put him up on the pedal stool and if he is not cool she will be disappointed. It is also completely unnecessary.

I have one friend called Chris who is very good looking with strong facial features. He studied Software Engineering with me and is a good friend to this day. Chris generally lacks confidence, a bit geeky and can be shy in social situations. He’s much better now, however I lost count on the number of times girls would come up to him in a club. They’d say hi or that they liked him at least once per night. Yet every time he would seem to be able to de-attract the woman. This is a guy who has looks that could grace the cover of a fashion magazine. Yet he only had sex three times over the course of his three years at University. He is not religious and he didn’t have a girlfriend.

Now my house mate Ash was and is a full on geek. He owns every games console ever created. Think Sega Saturn to Dreamcast, he owns them all. He has phrases like “It’s on like Donkey Kong” and “Locked and Loaded”. Above his bed he has a massive customized Ms Pac man poster. If there was an island of geeks then he would be The Great Geeker. He isn’t great looking although he thinks that he is, in fact he is balding, skinny and pale looking.

Now Ash wasn’t perfect, he had ego and a strong need to feel loved. However this geeky guy would regularly go out and pick up girls. Ash was my main wing back at University and someone I learnt a lot from. He completely accepted his geekiness and just loves video games.

One of Ash’s favourite things to do was to bring a girl back to his room, have sex with her in the dark and then turn the lights on afterwards to reveal his games consoles and posters and proudly shout “You’ve just had sex with a nerd!”. I can imagine the poor girl thinking, “oh my god what have I done, I had sex with you? You suck!”

Ash didn’t have looks but he did have confidence, humour and was generally a positive guy. A man’s looks are such a passive thing for a woman that they are basically irrelevant. Make sure you are shaved, clean and wear decent clothes and that will be enough for you to date women with unlimited beauty.

Best,

Rob

8 SECOND #CLOSE

After finishing boot camp about 7 or 8 months ago I was walking home and saw a girl wearing a hoodie, sitting on the wall waiting for a bus.

The 8 second #close went like this.

Walked pasted stop did a quick double take and one step back. (She looked up)
Forced IOI with my point and hide face with hand routine. (she smiled)
Walked straight up hands held out CHEEKY SMILE Wink She took my hands.

“Hay take your hoodie off” (she did), said “that’s better” (as I span her) Cheesy
“Gotta catch my bus, I’m having a fancy dress party gimme your number I’ll text ya”
Her: Ok giggles (giggles are good it means they trust you and there happy and fancy you, I’m always happy when my women are giggling, (as I typed 07 into it and handed it to her). Then looked away like it was no big deal. NOTE OF INTEREST: this is important as if they look up and your grinning like a twat then they are likely just to say email me instead or actually I better not.

I shouted later Miss Red Riding hood as left with another point and cheeky smile as I walked away, this is important as it’s like sealing the deal but super quick.
Why I hear you ask and still wasn’t the sealing the deal to quick.

If you chat to a HB for 3 hours then number close then go straight after that, she will most likely flake. But if you stay inset for another 20mins to show all the trust, comfort and connection you have built up is chicken soup = kosher, then she won’t flake.

Now if the interaction is under 30 seconds and you piss off immediately after getting the number then she will still flake.

So you need to so a mini something at the end to show you just wasn’t after the number, now in my case I did a point and smile which is what sparked her interest at the beginning. Even though I was walking away at the time this was ok as at the time I was walking to her. It’s sort of like a trigger or anchor.

Also as it was a super quick #number close I could do a super quick exit.

I never had a party and just texted my text routines she came over to mine the next night and f-close totally time in her company from start to finish 20ish mins.

So now when women say they can tell if they like a man in the first few seconds you know that there still lots of time to do things in that time frame Cheesy Cool

Beckster

Just a quick ONS report

For a talk about this one as it slightly different to other ONS is I have experienced, of a while bowling around TT on Saturday night number closing Scandinavian’s I decided to grab one and dance

I opened with a mild basic GSF engager:
Me: Do you think I would look good in a Clit?
HBScandi: What?
Me: Do you think Good look good in a kilt?
HBScandi: Yes I like men’s legs, do you own a kilt?
Me: Yes or wear it on our next date.
HBScandi: really??
Me: if you’re lucky.

Fluff, C&F, Dance spin her show off a little.

HBScandi: Do you want a drink?
Me: about time, surprise me?
HBScandi: laughs ok.
(Smirnoff ice was brought back, her first deposits on me which I know she did not want to lose about getting the final product, me!)

The change seated area, she lost bracelet worth £400 I asked a loss property they said call in a morning

She was unhappy and was nearly crying

I’d cheered her up

Major Kino, kclose, DeepGame talk. One hour from meeting back at her place. Tongue
Then said listen its time for us to go and then led her out to the taxi rank.
She paid for the taxi (second deposit on me)

All the way through the journey she said I think you should go home.
These were big sh*t tests, she also said to you want to f*ck me?
I said yes but I want to be your friend.

She kept saying the sentence at least 20 times even when we were back drinking top champagne in her luxury apartment in Edgware Road penthouse

I eventually caveman her, picked her up and said now I’m going to F*ck you hard, then tossed her on the bed

She did everything and so did I

In her Condom draw was 5 vibrators and furry white hand cuffs, tons of lub sachets I borrowed a couple.

Verdict: no matter how big the sh*t there is always away around it, the bigger the test the hard you fight back.

Clown to Crown

Beckster

Hey, this text routine has got me laid more than any other routine,

Text 1: Hay u (or a name you gave her e.g. sticky, minx etc), how’s tricks, it was short but sweet meeting you.(mention a joke you shared), Beckster x p.s Do you like roasted marshmellows?

Reg HB replies I get are it order of a good response:

Yes I love them! Blar………….
Yes who doesn’t? Blar………….
No are they nice? Blar………….
Yes the pink ones? blar blar………….
I like (another sort of sweet e.g. popcorn, smarties etc).

Sometimes they reply things like “yeah there sweet and sticky like me (-;
Food with sex why not (-; xxx
What are you going to do with them xxx

Text 2: Yes I love them to (or there sweet and sticky like me, cool you can have the pink ones) I have them on my DVD evenings with wine. Do you like movies? Beckster p.s what’s your fav flav of wine Red or white?

Hb:
White every time! Blar blar………….
Depends on what food it’s with (-; (marshmellows you stupid bitch!!! joke don’t reply with this Cheesy)
Red of course. blar balr………….
Rose.
Bubbles baby.

Good rare ones have been:
I like a bath with my wine (-;
Red will go with my nighty xxx
I like both with you xxxx
I’ll bring both as it’s gonna be a long night (-; (she did as well Shocked)

Text 3: the bits it brackets don’t write I’m explaining how the text works.
I like rose in the winter myself (whatever season it is, also not agreeing with her), hay you should join me on my DVD, roasted marshmellows and Wine night (still not really inviting her directly), but what would you rather pick the movie or the wine?(the challenge) are you good at picking wine? Beckster P.s What’s your fav sort of movie comedy, horror or romance? (End in romance, last thing on her mind)

Her Replies and what they normally mean about her.
Horror (means she likes to be protected a lot, so hold her a lot keep her safe, she will normally be a little quite but also open minded to sex).
Comedy This is the worst Angry means they just want a laugh so you will have to work to bed them, but that’s another story Cheesy Also it’s hard to be sexual while laughing.
Romance: Means she wants you Wink
Any reply is 95% a yes to come on your DVD night.

Text4: (Logistics)
I like Rom Com Wink cool I just got some new movies in too!
I free at the moment on Tues or weds (pick any days you want), would you rather meet at (pick places near you place seems like your giving her choices and she’s always in control, insane Wink)

There’s my 10 cents Cool

Beckster

Too many men seek power from outside themselves. They will part with great amounts of money in order to try to buy some magic bullet. There is no such thing as a magic bullet. Furthermore, they are not assuming responsibility for their own outcome.

Too many men are busy running around trying to get as many women to sleep with them as possible, thinking that it will prove something to themselves. But it won’t, and such men end up still having the same underlying problems. They need to fix their problems before they involve real people.

Too many men entirely base their self worth on how many women say yes. That puts all the power in the women. There is nothing personally powerful about that.

Too many men see women as an obstacle to get around to get to the sex. Such men are just masturbating inside an object.

So many men place power in a woman based solely on the woman’s looks. He does not even consider who she is as a person. What you are seeking so relentlessly is nothing that comes from outside of you, it’s something you already have.

There is only you. You have only you to rely on. You have only
you that you can count on. And what better to work on than yourself?

But you have to believe that you deserve it.

People don’t necessarily get what they want. People don’t necessarily get what they need. Instead, people get what they honestly and truly believe that they deserve. In other words, people get what they expect to get.

The key to having what you want is not getting what you want, but being the person for whom getting what you want is a mere by product of the reality you create simply by the way you live life.

It builds a foundation of belief that is very real and a relationship
with reality that is very empowering.

Get Real. Get in touch with reality.

Respect reality.

After Sex – Medium Investments increasing to Large Investments

She looks you up on Facebook
She pays for dinners
She gets jealous when seeing you interacting with other women
She pays for transport to visit you
She buys you a present
She reveals sexual desires to you
She introduces you to her friends
She introduces you to her parents

Investment can come in many different forms and it is basically just getting someone to do something for you. People can either invest because you ask them to or they do it on their own. For instance you could ask a girl to buy you a drink. This is something that you are asking the girl to do, you are giving her a hoop. Alternatively the girl could look you up on Facebook and then send you an email. Here the girl is investing her time and thought of her own accord. Both are forms of investment and they usually come in the form of time, emotion or finance.

I stress again that you don’t want the girl to invest too much into you otherwise you will get an extremely unattractive clingy girl. In a relationship it is good to be fair – generally, just be aware if you are investing too much into something.

If you aren’t in a relationship yet though then it is always a good idea to get her investing as much as possible. Getting a girl to buy you a drink when you meet her in the bar will result in a much higher probability of you seeing her again. Why? You probably know the answer to this already  She has more invested in you and so rationalises that you must be a cool guy. She would only buy a drink for a cool guy and so you must have been special.

Iwanted to give you my congratulations for the new project of yours PUA Replay. I have just became a member of it. I am doing great so far got 1 lay, 4 dates and on towards one great relationship (I think …..since i am liking this shit and want more and wouldn’t like to stop for one girl but its xmas and its nice to cuddle with just one girl yeahhhh right!!! Anywayz of to continue wathcing videos of yours, hope to see you for a one to one next year.

Big love to you and all,

J from faraway land

PUA Wing Rules

You and your Wingman should be friends. Make sure you and your Wing have commonalities other than women. Find out what similar interests in music, sport or hobbies you have and hangout together outside of Game. Having cool friends in your life will raise your survival value dramatically when demonstrated in front of women.

When talking to women, big each other up rather than putting each other down. By putting your friends down you are sub-communicating to women that you have Low Value friends. People tend to hangout with other people with a similar value to their own. Ever dated a hot girl? You will notice that all her friends look very similar to the girl you are dating; almost clones. A girl’s value is based primarily on sexual replication, your value is based primarily on survival. She will presume your survival value is also low.

You want your friends to have value.

Never fight over a woman. Simple rule: whoever Approaches first can choose the girl he wants. There should be no excuses or deviations from this rule.
Use secret phrases to let your Wing know who your target is. For example, you could say “Watch out for this one – she’s trouble” – to let your Wing know this girl is your Target.

If you’re with your Wing, make sure you Escalate in Sync. This is often one of the main ways a Wing can wreck a good interaction. If one girl is a lot more giggly than the other one then the lower state girl will drag the other girl away. She will recognise that the high state girl is going to have sex and because she isn’t in that state of mind then she‘ll end the interaction. If both girls are in a similar state of arousal then this won’t happen. I’ve enabled this on several occasions with female friends. My wing has his target and I’m left with the other two girls. By escalating on them at the same pace I may even get a three-way Makeout, or at least separate kisses from both.

You want to isolate in a cool way. You don’t want your Wing picking up his girl and carrying her out of the venue. Your girl will immediately begin to freak out and look to see what is happening. This usually spells the end of the interaction as the other girl’s comfort levels have been exceeded. It’s not the girl who was picked up that has lost comfort but her friend. When in a group interaction you want to bear in mind everyone’s comfort levels as they can influence the outcome.

Escalate in isolation. It is usually best to escalate physically and verbally in isolation away from the group. This simple step removes having to deal with the friends’ comfort levels and makes your Wing’s job a lot easier.

If you are a lot more experienced than your Wing, then it is often good to let him go first and let him get the added bonus of being confident and spontaneous in the approach. You can then enter the conversation, talk to the other girl and isolate her away from your Wing as quickly as possible. That way both girls won’t end up talking to you and you can develop a connection with just one of them.

If you Wing has really bad Approach Anxiety then don’t try to push him to Approach. Just treat it as a solo night and bring him in when you need him and hangout with him after the interactions. Soon enough he will get bored and start to Approach for himself.

You want to have a similar energy level to your Wing, and that should be about the same level as the girls that you’re interested in. One of you having high energy and the other low usually ends up looking weird and like a terrible comic double act.

If a Wing enters your conversation and you don’t want him there, then tell him you’ll catch up with him in a bit. Then tell the girl that he’s some guy from work.

If a guy enters your conversation and you don’t know him or don’t really care, then ignore him and keep talking to the girls. If he tries to engage you then say “That’s cool, man ” and continue talking to the girls. He will get bored, walk off and your value will be raised.

A lot of these Wing rules take practice to develop. Until you find a good Wing it is usually good practice just to go out with guys and Open for yourself. When the Set is over, you have a social base to go back to.

Take responsibility for yourself to have a good night. If your Wing is not Approaching then take responsibility for doing this yourself.

Casual Number Close

Sometimes you just won’t have time to build a solid connection with the girl. In this case you want to Open, quickly Qualify on something light and then go for a casual Number Close. Although this may result in her giving you a flaky number, there is still some chance you will see her again. It is actually not a bad approach and taking this approach with ten girls might lead to three meeting up with you again.

Example One

You: I’m actually in a bit of a rush, I’m meeting my friends Katie and Sarah for coffee but I liked this conversation, you have a good energy about you. Enter your number and maybe we can go for a coffee sometime? I can only take it if it’s an English number though.

Her: Yes it’s a English number

PUA: Cool, 07.……….

What is happening hear is you are mentioning that you are off to meet a couple of female friends which shows you must be a cool guy. You false qualify her by saying that you like her energy, this becomes the reason to see each other again. Finally you say, I’ll only take your number if it’s an Englishg number. I have another nerdy word for you to learn, this is called a Distracter. She is agreeing it’s a UK number, but you presume she is agreeing to see you again so you then prompt her to enter her number.

Example Two

You: I’m actually in a bit of a rush, I’m meeting my friends Katie and Sarah for coffee but I liked this conversation, you seem interesting. I organise parties and the last one we had was a pub crawl of the Monopoly Board, it’s a lot of fun; lots of girls and cool guys get together. What’s your number and I’ll send you a text about when the next one is, you are welcome to bring friends.

Her: [enters number]

This is a very casual number close but very effective if you are looking to build your social circle. Saying she is welcome to bring friends will remove pressure that it will be an awkward date. If she turns up with a couple of female friends, awesome: you will be pre-selected for the whole night.

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